From ancient times to the present, China has many traditional customs. For example, after marriage, children take their father's surname and women live with their husbands. Sons get married and have children just to carry on the family line. If a husband and wife live with their wives after marriage, it is called dumping soup. After the founding of New China, some incorrect traditional customs were gradually abandoned. However, in modern society, some families are still influenced by traditional customs. In modern society, everyone is equal. Newcomers can form an independent family after marriage, which is definitely not an accessory of their parents' family. They can live with their husbands or wives, and there is no discrimination against them.

In modern society, young people can choose their own way of life after marriage.

In traditional customs, there is the concept of marriage. If the couple form a family and live with their wives, it is called knocking down the door, and the man is called the door-to-door son-in-law In modern society, young people have to form a new family after marriage. They will buy a house of their own, and will not live with either of their parents if they can afford it. If their financial capacity is limited, they can choose to live with their husband's family or their wife's family.

Living with each other's parents is bound to cause some trouble.

Whether you live with your wife or your husband is a personal choice of the newlyweds. Everyone will have some contradictions when they live with their parents, not to mention the parents of their wives or husbands. However, because the other party is the lover's parents, even if there are contradictions when getting along with the other party's parents, one party will generally choose to compromise, which will naturally bring troubles to life, which requires the wife or husband to mediate in the middle.

There are bound to be some contradictions when young people choose to live with their parents after marriage. But as long as you are spiritually and economically independent, it is a small contradiction. Young people should be more tolerant of their elders in trivial matters, but they should adhere to their own personal principles for irreconcilable contradictions.