In fact, there is no complicated source of this problem. Before the 1990 s, this situation was rare. Now the whole father-in-law is mainly a spoof.

First, because a large number of young people go out to work, the groom's peers participate less and there is no atmosphere.

The second reason is that my father-in-law has a wide range of friends when he reaches middle age. These people are not highly educated, but they are experienced people who play a little yellow.

The third reason is that friends between relatives and neighbors play pranks and think it is a festive atmosphere, because your son wants to trick you into letting all relatives and friends participate in this festive atmosphere. etc

In fact, the whole father-in-law now mainly relies on friends of his generation, and it will be the whole if friends hiss. . If the groom's friends are in the majority and they question the groom, it will be simple.