Avoid ice.

The increase in guests is equivalent to the decrease in the quality of the banquet. A simple truth is that every additional guest is equivalent to an increase in the wedding budget. If you have a maximum cost, increasing the number of people means reducing other expenses. Invite people you care about and people who play an important role in your life. On the wedding day, you must want to be surrounded by warm and familiar smiles, not those faces you can't recognize.

Second point

Don't force others to do it

There is no requirement for newcomers to perform at the wedding reception, but many people will arrange their own performances of 1 and 2 at the wedding reception. This kind of program is mainly about singing and playing musical instruments. Newcomers often only choose their own interests, no matter whether they are good at it or not, they often make a lot of jokes. Not only does the newcomer lose face, but the guests present will also feel uncomfortable.

the third point

Avoid newcomers being late.

Whether you are holding a wedding or attending a wedding, you should pay attention to the time and don't hinder the wedding from starting on time. Because if the wedding can't be held on time, all the processes will be postponed, and then there will be some problems in the venue and guests, especially after the wedding, another wedding may be arranged, which is difficult to solve.

Fourth point

Pay attention to friends with poor wine quality

Some friends like to talk nonsense after drinking. If the harmonious wedding atmosphere is broken by the drunken nonsense of relatives and friends, it will be a loss. Some people are hard to control when they are drunk, so you must remind the waiter to pay special attention to the safety of all guests, and at the same time let your best man or male friend keep an eye on this guest.

Fifth point

Pay attention to bring good things after the party.

When you receive gifts at the wedding, you should make records and ask someone to keep them, so as not to lose them as much as possible. After the wedding, the tense nerves will immediately relax and the finishing work will begin to fade away. The wedding planner reminds the couple, especially the gifts given by the guests, that they are often lost after the wedding. You know, wedding gifts are often expensive and are the heart of friends and relatives. After losing them, they will not only be blamed by relatives and friends, but also feel pity.

The sixth point

Avoid delaying the wedding process.

The wedding planner suggested that we should receive every guest in the shortest time and arrange the wedding time reasonably. On your wedding day, there are many things you must do, such as toasting and cutting cakes. If you spend a lot of time receiving individual guests, other guests will think you are a rude person and will delay the whole wedding process. If you meet a friend who really wants to chat at the wedding, you can finally spend some time catching up.

Point seven

Don't forget to eat.

Hunger is a big problem that the bride and groom need to face, and it is also the most easily overlooked problem. Do you think skipping breakfast can make you look slim in a wedding dress? The cost of doing so is huge! Breakfast may be your last meal of the day, but you need a lot of energy on this day. If you have a bad stomach, try to eat something high in calories and easy to digest. If you feel uneasy at the beginning of the wedding, I'm afraid you won't have time to eat again. Many newcomers are too busy receiving guests to eat by themselves. Not eating will make people listless, so serious that they may faint. Therefore, you must eat something before the wedding and try to eat at the banquet.

The eighth point

Pay attention to calm your mind.

"I forgot to bring earrings, which were specially chosen to match the wedding dress ..." Usually, the busyness begins on the morning of the wedding. When this little regret happens, don't hold it in your heart and spoil your mood all day. If there is a big problem, you don't have to panic and let others solve it for you. You just need to relax, keep smiling and enjoy your day.

Point nine

Pay attention to the couple's own feelings.

Wedding will bring many people, such as relatives and friends, and some social groups to your side, but more importantly, it will bring two people together and live together. When you plan your own wedding, you should focus on what you want to do, not what others want you to do. Indeed, it is important to consider the feelings of others. Using some symbolic behaviors will please others, but never make a choice that you don't like originally, but just to please others, and don't make arrangements beyond your ability to pay.

Point 10

Avoid getting too excited.

The scene of wearing a wedding dress is a childhood fantasy. When this day really comes, some brides can't control their emotions. No matter whether they wear stiff smiles or shed excited tears from beginning to end, they can't show their best. The groom, on the other hand, tends to think too much about things after marriage, causing stress and even using sedatives and alcohol. To calm his mood, causing the most important day of his life to be spent in a daze.