One thing you must do when you get married is to pick up the bride. At this time, couples usually rent some wedding cars to prepare this thing, because the most ostentatious thing in marriage is to pick up the bride. When rows of wedding cars pass through the streets of the city, they will attract many people's attention, but ordinary young people rarely know what the process of picking up the bride is like. Let's follow Bian Xiao to see the specific process of picking up the bride.
First of all, the process of the groom's acceptance at the bride's house.
1, go
Upon arrival, the groom began to pick up the bride from the new house. Before leaving, he will give a wedding gift package to the driver of each wedding car. There are red envelopes and cigarettes in the wedding bag. Someone in the camera car must know the bride's house.
2, blocking the door
At the wedding, blocking the door is a test for the groom. Bian Xiao summed up two experiences:
1. coax
The most important thing is to coax the bridesmaid and all the relatives and friends of the bride. The most direct way is to prepare a lot of red envelopes.
Be patient
No matter how hard the bridesmaid makes things difficult for the groom, the groom can't back down. The bridesmaids will prepare some games to make things difficult for the groom, which are lively and atmospheric, but enough is enough, not too much, just have fun.
Step 3 propose marriage
The groom successfully passed the bridesmaid test and can meet the bride when he enters the door. The first thing to do when you meet the bride is to get down on one knee and give the bouquet to the bride.
Step 4 serve tea
After the bride receives the bouquet, she will toast the bride's elders and parents and change her name to parents. The order of the groom's toast is: to the bride's parents first, and then to the bride's elders.
Step 5 look for shoes
After some ceremonies, the bride can go out. The bridesmaids will hide the bride's shoes and let the groom find the shoes ordered by the bride. Otherwise, they will not be allowed to go out. You can "buy off" bridesmaids with red envelopes. This is also a link to increase the atmosphere, and the meaning of red envelopes is enough.
Step 6 extinguish
After the bride's shoes are found, she can go out. The groom carried the bride into the car. When going out, the bride should look forward, not back.
7. get in the car
The bride should take an apple in her hand before going out and get on the bus and go straight to the groom's house. Never look back on the road. When she arrives at the groom's house, the whole process of picking up the bride will be over.
Second, pay attention to meet relatives.
1. Most people who get married are unmarried, and those whose elders are divorced, remarried or widowed can't go.
2. In many places, there is a marriage custom of "menstruation refuses and menstruation refuses to send it", because "menstruation" is homophonic, "loneliness" and "menstruation" are homophonic and "suspicious" are all unlucky words in marriage.
3. Generally, the best man group and good brothers or relatives are arranged. Neither parent can take part in picking up the bride. Just go directly to the hotel or wait for the couple to come back at home.
4. In short, the allocation of male and female personnel should be basically equal, that is, the man is a relative of the same generation, and the woman should not arrange relatives of the elders. As the saying goes: ten miles is different from the sky, and a hundred miles is different from the customs. Therefore, the specific customs should be notified to the elders at home before adjustment. What do the elders want-we must try our best to meet them. After all, the wedding is a happy event, and goodwill comes first!
Third, the game recommendation
1, it's time to give your supple leg hair to my brother, and say to yourself, it doesn't hurt, it's not my leg ~
2. Brush your teeth with mustard toothpaste: tut tut, the feeling of being sour across the screen. ...
There are so many mahjong, it's time to test the flexibility of your toes and clip them out.
4. Blindfold lipstick is a tacit test for each other ~ It will be better to have a sweet kiss after painting ~
Well, that's a brief introduction to the bride-picking process brought by Bian Xiao. Picking up relatives is also a more exquisite thing, which needs to be done step by step. If you don't take that step well, you will attract criticism from others in the future, so be prepared to pick up your relatives yourself.