Maybe the woman's parents don't have the habit of smoking and drinking, but they should also express their feelings, because this is the traditional marriage custom. Don't think that if you don't smoke, you won't buy it. This is a taboo and will be regarded as impolite by your wife and parents.

2, holiday gifts

If you meet your girlfriend's parents during the holiday, you need to buy holiday gifts, such as moon cakes in the Mid-Autumn Festival and zongzi in the Dragon Boat Festival.

3. Fruit milk

You can bring some fruit and milk, which shows that you are very sensible. Although this gift is common, it also shows your intention.

4. Health products

If the mother-in-law has calcium deficiency, poor absorption or other physical discomfort, she can send health care products. This gift depends on local customs, and some places think that health care products are unlucky.

5. tea

If no one in the woman's family drinks, bring some good tea, such as West Lake Longjing, Rizhao Green Tea, Laoshan Green Tea, Dongting Biluochun, Huangshan Mao Feng and Anxi Tieguanyin. Most elders have the habit of drinking tea.

6. Local specialties

The other parents know that it is a specialty prepared by your parents, which shows that the man respects the woman and attaches great importance to this meeting, leaving a good impression on her parents. They think your family is very concerned about this matter, so they will be more concerned about this future son-in-law.