Zhang Shaohua had been ill until his death. It is said that her son is very busy and she often goes to the hospital alone. A 75-year-old woman, frail and sickly, went to the hospital alone, hunched her back, and her thin body trembled, just like many thin, kind and helpless old ladies who were always bullied in film and television dramas, which made people feel sour.

What about the agreed "I will support you and you will accompany me to die"?

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Zhang Shaohua lived a hard life, so he studied Pingju to solve the problem of food and clothing. He studied in Tsing Yi for six years, because he can't act because of his image. Later, I fell in love with Cai Dan, a Chinese opera, but it never developed well.

After middle age, he began to set foot on the screen, and gradually became familiar with the audience by playing the role of mother in many films. "Dragon Hall" and "Big House Gate" won the "Magnolia Award" in the 11th Shanghai TV Festival with the leading role of "Secret", but their popularity is still average.

Until the age of 56, she played the ugly mother in My Ugly Mother, creating a mother who was willing to give up everything for her son but was rejected by her son, which became an instant hit. Since then, she has established a "old mother" professional household on the screen.

My Ugly Mother tells the story of an old mother who raised her son Wang alone in the countryside and was rejected by her own son. Handsome son Wang went to work in the city and finally met his favorite girl, but he was afraid to tell her that his mother was good in the countryside just because she was too ugly. He wrote to tell his mother that he was getting married, but he didn't want her to come to the wedding.

Unexpectedly, on the wedding day, the ugly mother suddenly rushed to the scene. Wang, who was afraid of being betrayed, cheated Zhao and shut the ugly mother out of the wedding hotel, describing her as "asking for directions".

Ugly mother was heartbroken and left sadly. Unexpectedly, there was an accident on the road. Li Jianping, the owner of an enterprise, mistook the ugly mother for his long-lost mother and took the homeless ugly mother to his luxurious villa.

Ugly mother never imagined that our luxury villa was just across the street from Wang's newly-married bungalow. Wang, who couldn't find his mother, found an ugly mother across the street, but he was afraid to take it home. He can only beg his mother to wait for time.

Ugly mother has a hard time at Li Jianping's house and is often bullied by the nanny. However, the ugly mother influenced the nanny with her kindness and tolerance. Through the companionship of her wife, the nanny felt the warmth of the family, and finally the ugly mother was loved by the Li family. My own son finally regretted it.

In the play, the ugly mother worked hard to raise her eldest son, but the son didn't do his duty to support her because he was ugly. Outsiders who are not his own son regard her as the filial piety of his own mother and consider her as a kind of pension.

The ugly mother played by Zhang Shaohua is deeply rooted in people's hearts. Since then, Zhang Shaohua has become a professional "mother".

Most of the mothers played by Zhang Shaohua in the play are forbearing and wise, who see through the world without losing their warmth, and are often the backbone of a big family. The mother-child relationship between her and her "sons" touched countless viewers on the screen.

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In fact, Zhang Shaohua and her husband, who is also a drama critic, have a son.

Because the couple were busy with their careers, the son lived with the old man at an early age and was not around until he was fourteen. However, the son who lacked maternal love since childhood seems to be separated from his parents, which makes Zhang Shaohua and his wife feel indebted all the time, and they are doubly kind to their son.

In order to make up for her son, she gave him a loan to buy a house of 100 square meters in Beijing. She and her wife live in an old house of more than 40 square meters.

Over the years, Zhang Shaohua mentioned his son with a bright smile on his face, but he also admitted that there were some differences between him and his son. After all, the lost years can't make up for the lack of parent-child affection, and Zhang Shaohua and his son can't always be close and harmonious. They can't say who is right or wrong, they can only sigh the helplessness of life.

Dramatically, in reality, Zhang Shaohua also has an adopted son, Yang Zhigang, who plays the mother and son with Zhang Shaohua in The Iron Pear. He happened to have a man named Zhi Gang, and Zhang Shaohua and Yang Zhigang became acquainted while filming "Iron Pear", forming a mother-child relationship.

After the filming of "Iron Pear", Yang Zhigang kowtowed three times on the cold ground of Zhang Shaohua's house and recognized the dopted mother. Zhang Shaohua was moved to tears every time she talked about it, saying that Yang Zhigang was her own son.

Yang Zhigang also gave the old lady a lot of touching warmth. Yang Zhigang once declared: My favorite woman is not a beautiful woman, but my old godmother.

Yang Zhigang will call Zhang Shaohua twice every few days to ask how she is doing. She also offered to give the old lady money to change houses in Beijing. Although Zhang Shaohua refused to accept it, she was moved to tears by Yang Zhigang's warmth, which was not affection, but affection.

Zhang Shaohua, a guest of Film and Television, said: Yang Zhigang's love for her is either so flamboyant or especially warm.

In recent years, Zhang Shaohua was in poor health and was often picked up by Yang Zhigang when he was hospitalized. Zhang Shaohua was blessed to have such a filial adopted son in his later years.

Zhang Shaohua often regrets that this adopted son is closer than his own son.

To say that people really depend on fate, Zhang Shaohua failed to kiss his own son because of filming, and got a godson who was closer than his own son because of filming.

Life is like a play, and a play is like life.

What is missing in one place will always be made up for you in another place.

Although Zhang Shaohua is not close to her son, she has a close and warm godson. Now so many old people in society are not so lucky.

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Recently, the news that the comminuted fracture of Linyi 180-year-old man in Shandong Province was abandoned by his children to death was chilling.

The old man gave birth to five sons and four daughters, and now he has four sons and three daughters. The old man was admitted to the hospital the day he fell, and the doctor diagnosed him as a comminuted fracture. If he dies, he will be paralyzed for life. The next day, she was carried home by the child and lay in bed groaning in pain. Relatives and friends can't stand it anymore, and they are willing to pay for the treatment of the elderly, but the children are delayed. Obviously, they have decided to give up treatment.

It is said that children and grandchildren are mostly blessed, but a group of indifferent children can't save the old mother's old age. Crows are still "mothers eat for 60 days and feed back for 60 days when they grow up." People are not as good as crows?

Many people in Zhihu would rather not have children. On the one hand, I am worried that the burden of raising children is too heavy, on the other hand, I am worried that children will be more unfilial when they are older.

Many parents have worked hard for their children to go to school all their lives, and finally their children have grown up. In order to develop better, they chose to stay in other places and get married. Parents never complain about their children's future, but it is an indisputable fact that children are aging day by day and may face dementia and disability.

In reality, the traditional mode of raising children and preventing old age faces great challenges.

There are children who yearn for old age and dislike their parents like Wang, the son of an ugly mother. Of course, there are many filial children, but it is difficult to protect themselves, and many people are willing but unable to do so.

A considerable number of children are too busy to take care of their parents and it is unrealistic to give up their jobs, which will mean a decline in the quality of life, the challenge of survival, and the high medical expenses that cannot cope with disease prevention and treatment.

In the face of their children's plight, what way should parents choose to provide for the elderly?

At present, the elderly in society can choose institutional pension, community pension, long-distance pension, living together and holding a group pension.

The choice of the way of providing for the aged is influenced not only by its own conditions, but also by local environmental factors.

Providing parents with a sense of security is the responsibility of children and society.

May your efforts and mine catch up with my parents' old age. Let parents have a sense of security and let future generations look forward to it.