1. You must find an introducer, and everything should be discussed through her, preferably someone familiar with the woman's family.

2. Choose a date, which should be confirmed by the introducer and the woman's parents.

Buy three gold, clothes and shoes, as long as the woman wants.

4. discuss the gift money. .

On the day of engagement, people who go to the man's house-parents, letters of introduction, relatives (it is best to find someone who can drink and recognize relatives) bring gifts, three gold, clothes, shoes, a bundle of vermicelli and a piece of pork (not much, but long).

In fact, there are not so many rules, as long as the woman is willing, anything can be done.