1, need to change their home style. If there are only husband and wife at home, then home is a completely comfortable and casual occasion. You can wear shorts and a vest, and you don't have to worry about your behavior. Although the mother-in-law is also a relative, after all, men and women are different. Once you live together, you need to change your living habits and pay attention to your words and deeds. Home will no longer be a completely relaxed environment, and they will feel less comfortable.
2. Increase the psychological burden of the son-in-law. Women like to nag, and when they see things they don't agree with, they will speak their opinions directly, especially their mother-in-law. For the place where the son-in-law's behavior does not meet their expectations, they will give advice as elders, but they don't know that many men like to nag, but out of respect, they have to bear it silently.
2. It may aggravate the contradiction between husband and wife. No matter how loving couples live together, they will also have various contradictions because of various trivial matters. As husbands, they must expect to solve it internally and don't like the intervention of a third person. However, as mothers, many mothers-in-law think that they have the responsibility to protect their daughters once they realize that their daughters have been wronged, and they begin to deal with the emotional problems of husband and wife unscrupulously, and more often they accuse and scold their son-in-law unprincipled. As a junior, the son-in-law can't refute it. Instead, he blames his wife for the fault, magnifying the originally small contradiction between husband and wife and affecting feelings.
Two generations with completely different concepts will always have all kinds of bumps and bumps. In order to reduce family conflicts, it is best for young couples to live alone if conditions permit.