I hate it even more when a woman pulls her best friend because of a trivial matter and says, "It's not because ..... otherwise, how could I marry him?" . I don't know what happened to my first love, but I think he is the best for me.
Hehe, I just want to say that it's a good thing you didn't marry the so-called right person, otherwise you would definitely get divorced.
We are all adults, don't be like children. What decision you make depends on your situation. Every decision carries the way that suits you best, so you are responsible for your choice, and what kind of choice you make will bear what kind of results.
If you don't want to continue or break up, don't complain like a coward; Or find out the contradictory nodes and live a good life. Otherwise, I can only say you deserve it.
Marriage depends on management, life depends on acting, and you haven't even played your current role well. Who are you to blame others for your mistakes?
Everyone who is lovelorn says: Ta is the right person, but we can't be together for one reason or another, but I will always keep a place for ta in my heart.
Shit! Those who don't follow you to the end are the wrong people, pretending to be literary and showing off their talents. (take a deep breath ~ be calm)
Forget it, life is so long, I have to eat, sleep, work and play every day, and I don't have much time to think about those who have nothing to do with me anymore. You can eat more roadside stalls in your spare time.
I like to use this passage to comfort people who are uncertain about their feelings: the person who will accompany you to the end is doomed. If the person you are with now is not the one who is destined to be, then no matter how much you love ta and how hard you work, you will be separated. If people who are destined to be together, no matter how many times they miss it, they will eventually be together. You have worked hard, so leave the rest to time and fate. But it is up to you to change yourself and make yourself excellent.
Maybe you think this is too arbitrary. There is not a saying: fate is in your own hands; Only those who don't want to work hard will say let nature take its course.
No, I mean, if you love enough, you will work hard. If you can't give up as you wish, it's not the right person, but don't blame anyone for what you didn't try to lose. You don't love enough, and you are not the right person. The right person may need you to take 99 steps, but maybe you only need one step to be together.
Those who think they will muddle along by marrying someone they think will get married. Actually, that's the right person Because it is ta who accompanies you into the longest life. I just want to spend the last few decades with you, with no regrets. All right!
I don't know if you have seen goodbye mr. loser. It was very popular when it was first released last year. I watched it twice. I was particularly moved when I saw it.
Charlotte dressed up for the goddess wedding in middle school, hoping to make herself proud. As a result, her daughter-in-law Ma Dongmei got married. Charlotte entered middle school by mistake and lived her youth again. When he knew that he was not dreaming, but that his life had never happened, the whole person was shocked and a series of ironic stories happened. With his foreknowledge of the future, he finally reached the peak of his life and married his own goddess. I am unhappy in the face of my brother's betrayal and my wife's infidelity. I just know that my last life is what I want most.
Of course, I suggest that friends who haven't seen it can go and see it, and friends who have seen it should be able to understand it. There are many smiles and tears. Personally, I think it's better than passing by your world. Don't hit me, fans
Life starts all over again, even if you know the future direction, although you have chosen the person you want to choose, you have changed your original trajectory, but so what? Charlotte also has troubles, even more melancholy than before. You just found out that life is still beautiful.
At the end of the film, Charlotte crossed back after her death. It turned out to be just a dream. We don't know if it is a dream, but we know that Charlotte did live the future she once wanted in her dream, but it was not good. I didn't know how precious my daughter-in-law Ma Dongmei was until I woke up.
Then hold Ma Dongmei all day and follow her in everything. Ma Dongmei plays mahjong, and Charlotte holds her legs. Although the movie is a bit exaggerated, it really makes people laugh and cry.
A friend, before getting married, chatted with me in the middle of the night and said, "Actually, I prefer to marry that girl. I think she is the best for me. But ... "(qnmd)
"You have what good, what's wrong with your fiancee now? Good-looking, simple family, stable job and good personality. Anywhere is better than your goddess. " I interrupted him before he finished. I even think he's funny.
"It's not bad, but you may like that girl better." He is somewhat helpless.
"Do you like it better? Don't say that. That's what you think is appropriate. That girl didn't say she would marry you. Your wife is really good now. "
"Didn't say she is not good. Just ... "
"But you big ye. There is a saying that what you can't get is always the best. "
"Maybe."
Dude, that's enough, bitch. What you can't get is good. I just don't know how to cherish what I have.
Later, when I got married, I asked him, do you regret it? He said, there is nothing to regret, just live.
But sometimes I hear him complain that his wife is not. In fact, in my opinion, there is no contradiction at all. There may be a person in my heart who feels that it is not the most compatible, and everything is compared.
In fact, if he really marries the girl he thinks, there are some contradictions, even more, because marriage is a brand-new life for them, and many things they have never met. People have to change for this. Contradictions will certainly follow.
Because I like it best and feel perfect, I expect more and care more.
Children may be noisy because their bowls are different from their partners' colors, cry because their toys are different, and always feel that their bowls are good. Adults always feel that what they have is not as good as what they don't have.
In fact, let you go through life again, you don't know what will happen in the future, you will still be like this, or you will choose the people and life now.
However, no one has the opportunity to return to youth with the memories of past lives, so we can only live a good life on the only life track. Even if Charlotte did, she finally chose the present life.
In fact, the so-called unmarried goddess and unmarried male god are nothing more than that. They are mortal, but they still have to eat, drink, sleep, eat, drink, eat, drink, eat, drink, eat, drink, eat, drink, eat, drink, earn money and work overtime.
Wine tastes good, and mobile phones are fun. What lover do you pretend to be in front of your brother (best friend) and go home with your wife (husband)?