In fact, whenever a wedding banquet is held, more than half of it is the request of parents. If you are young, you definitely don't want to be in the majority.

You can't decide whether to have a banquet, so let your parents ask your husband, and don't add yourself to the middle.

It is ok to put it in his country. Your parents will attend your wedding. When you return to the city, your parents will pay for it, and all the money collected will be given to your parents. I don't think this is a problem. Whoever pays for the banquet will get a gift. As for whether mom and dad will give it to you or not, that's their business.

In most cases, the man pays for the marriage. Unless his family conditions are not good and the woman can afford it, the woman pays for it. In addition, he said that the woman buys a house and a car, unless he is a door-to-door son-in-law, there is no such good thing.

Personally, I think you have been wronged enough. When you get married, you have nothing. On the contrary, you have an indecisive husband, which is a lot of trouble.