Parents with boys and girls often lament that their sons can't afford to marry, let alone hundreds of thousands, and there is no upper limit. Think about it carefully, it is actually a good thing if a girl can quantify her own mate selection criteria. After all, there is a direct measure to determine whether her own conditions can be met, by what percentage, or not at all. If what a girl wants can't be quantified, are you sure you can meet all the criteria except money?
Men always feel that it would be great if a woman could marry herself without a house, a car and a bride price. However, if there are such girls, are you sure you can really afford them?
1. She doesn't care about money. She just wants you to be kind to her all your life. Can you do it?
In fact, men don't know so much about women, as the song goes: Don't guess the minds of girls and boys, you can't guess. . . So many men don't know that most women will put their kindness at the top of the criteria for choosing a spouse, not the size of the house, the quality of the car or the amount of bride price.
Marrying such a girl can really save a lot of money, but please ask yourself first, can you treat a girl well for life? You should tolerate her willfulness, occasionally make trouble without reason, be considerate of her, make her happy when she is unhappy, and feel the same when she is sad. What she wants can never be measured by money. If you owe someone money, you can pay it back, plus interest, at least a figure, but if you decide from your heart that you owe a woman, you may never pay it back.
What she wants is not money. What she wants is that you always put her first. Can you do it?
In your heart, she hopes that she will always be the first. So, when she needs you, you need to be there for her at the first time. When she encounters difficulties and troubles, you should be duty-bound to help her solve all kinds of problems. You have no reason to refuse her bad temper, bad mood and bad mood, you can only accept them all. Because you didn't satisfy her with something quantifiable before marriage, what excuse do you have to say "no" to something quantifiable after marriage?
When there are any problems and contradictions in your relationship, she will always be wronged. She can cover a thousand words in your heart with one sentence. I don't want a house, a car or a bride price to marry you. Don't I just want you to be nice to me? Why can't you even do this? As a man, do you think you have anything to refute?
It's really like a sentence: first, the wife is always right; Second, if the wife is wrong, please refer to the first one.
My conclusion is:
Of course, we can't say that all women who don't want a house, a car or a bride price are like this, but this kind of thought and view must exist in their hearts. Sometimes a man will wonder why she is angry. Why is she unhappy? When did she become so sensitive?
In fact, except for a few girls, when a woman chooses to marry a man who has no economic foundation, what they lack most is a sense of security. What they want is a man's kindness, love, tolerance and attention, so any trouble will make them feel embarrassed and worry about whether he doesn't love himself. If she loses love, she loses the whole world.
So, are you sure you can afford such a girl?
Today's topic: What did you give your wife when you got married?