On the one hand, the daughter is her own, and it doesn't matter if she wants to say or scold, there will be no barriers; But daughter-in-law is different. After all, it is not biological, neither too light nor too heavy. It might be easy to hold grudges.

There is also a daughter-in-law, after all, a woman who entered the door in the later period, and her life span and blood relationship are not comparable to the former. So no matter how you hide it, no matter how hard you try, your daughter is still your daughter and your daughter-in-law will always be your daughter-in-law. Facts are facts.

On the other hand, many mother-in-law distracted her son because of the arrival of her daughter-in-law, and felt that her son had been robbed, and her daughter stood on her side, which would also help her fight for her position at home. To put it bluntly, the daughter-in-law is an outsider after all, and the daughter will always be one of our own.

It's like a mother will tell her daughter not to marry far away and not to worry about finding a job. She will support you, find a man who is kind to you when you get married, and don't do housework at her husband's house. If you are wronged, tell her that I will cook for you when you don't like food.

As for the daughter-in-law, the mother-in-law wants to marry her son and have grandchildren as soon as possible. She doesn't care if you adapt to long-distance relationships. She wants you to take care of the children and work to make money. When you get married, you can't stand that your son is nicer to his wife, and your daughter-in-law can't go back to her mother's house every day and just cook what she likes. If you don't wash her by the way, she will be unhappy.

In short, the daughter is the darling and willing to give everything for her, while the daughter-in-law has to give everything for their family.