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What should we pay attention to when getting married this year, and the negative effects of getting married this year.
Speaking of "the birth year", some people will think that many birth years are bad for them, especially marriage! In fact, no one can say clearly whether you can get married in this animal year. With the development of science, many things can be explained by science. Let's take a look at whether we can get married in this animal year and why not. In traditional customs, the Year of the Animal is usually considered as an unlucky year. The folk song "Don't be too old these days. Woe to be too old" is the best portrayal of bad luck this year. The taboo of "the monument to the core of life" has a wide influence among the people, and there is a tradition of hanging red in this year to avoid evil and disaster in both northern and southern folk customs. So people especially love red in every animal year. The emphasis on red in the animal year should come from the worship of red in the traditional culture of Han nationality in China. The concept of red to ward off evil spirits and red auspiciousness has existed since primitive society. Red is the color of the sun, blood and fire. With the changes of the times, this thought of respecting red has not changed. Red couplets, red wedding dresses, red hijabs, red candles, new family red lists for old weddings of Han people, and so on. Whenever and wherever, people should use red to add joy. Han people regard red as a symbol of happiness, success, loyalty and justice, especially red has the function of exorcising evil spirits and protecting the body. Therefore, on New Year's Eve, people put on red underwear early, or wear red belts and some accessories tied with red silk to welcome their birth year. It is believed that only in this way can we avoid disasters. These red things that ward off evil spirits in this animal year are what people often say, "this life is red." Generally speaking, this animal year is a blessing or a curse, or what most people think: this animal year is smooth and unstoppable; At present, there is no conclusion, saying that there are barriers and doorsteps everywhere, and it is bad luck to get home. But what is certain is that there is no scientific basis for saying that the animal year is a bad year. However, in this animal year, people often encounter many things they don't like or do some absurd things, which makes people feel very strange. This phenomenon of "core remains of life" is still a blank in folklore research. Therefore, people who often pass the birth year are very worried about their fortune this year. How to cross this threshold is the biggest thing for most people in their birth year. More ironically, as the New Year approaches, merchants will make full use of people's psychological characteristics of seeking good fortune and avoiding evil, and vigorously promote "animal year" products, such as red underwear and red underwear. Seize business opportunities and make big money. Today's animal year, like other traditional customs in China, has lost its inherent meaning and become a pretext for commercial propaganda. However, most of us follow this trend with the attitude of "believing what is there but not believing what is there", or when it is a new fashion, wearing red clothes and wearing a red belt in the "animal year" is not only to "ward off evil spirits", it has become a popular fashion. How about getting married in this animal year? However, some statements in Zhouyi are still worthy of reference. Among the twelve earthly branches, Zhouyi thinks that the suicides of Hai (pig), chenchen (dragon), Youyou (chicken) and Wuwu (horse) mean that they can't get through. These twelve earthly branches are exactly the corresponding four zodiac signs, namely, pig, dragon, chicken and horse. Therefore, getting married in this animal year is like committing "self-punishment". It will be unlucky and everything will go wrong. Of course, getting married can also cause problems. Therefore, Zhouyi believes that except these four zodiac signs, the other eight zodiac signs can get married freely in the animal year. In fact, this statement is not entirely correct. First, even if you commit "self-punishment" in this birth year, it depends on whether you use God or avoid God in my birthday. It's really bad luck if you avoid God, but what if you use God? That would be counterproductive, not only not fierce, but also god in place, adding joy to happiness and icing on the cake. There are many people who not only have a bad year, but also have a successful career, prosperous fortune, or happy events, which is the best example. Secondly, whether the other eight zodiac animals who didn't commit suicide are lucky to get married in this animal year depends on my likes and dislikes. If this year is my favorite god (this "god" refers to the five elements), or "three in one" or "six in one", it is suitable for marriage; If this year is the anniversary of my death (five elements), or if it is "every rush", "every harm" or "every punishment", it is not suitable for marriage. Moreover, even if the birth year is full of "rush, harm and punishment", it is not bad luck to get married because the injured person is jealous of god or washes away the husband and wife bank. However, in the animal year, people are generally tired and have some physical problems, which is worthy of attention. To put it bluntly, people are not as good as days. In fact, when did you get married, or even divorced? This information has been hidden in your date of birth. When luck, fleeting time and fate interact and the result is suitable for marriage, people will naturally get married. Therefore, on the issue of marriage and love, sometimes it is better to let nature take its course, and it may be a wise attitude to follow fate. In the animal year of 24, I was at the age of marriage. Some friends are worried about getting married in the birth year, but from the above analysis, we know that the influence of the birth year on people is not much different from that of the normal year. Sometimes it is not only not fierce, but also auspicious. Therefore, in this animal year, we can do our best to hold a wedding. Don't worry if the year of birth doesn't match the eight characters, because the festive atmosphere such as marriage can also dilute the negative impact of the year of birth. Note on the opposite side: from the orientation: the animal year, pay attention to health when going to the orientation that conflicts with the zodiac. For example, if a friend who belongs to the rabbit's animal year goes to the west of his birthplace, he will encounter the situation in Jin Kemu, which will lead to bad fortune or health, so he should be careful and not neglect everything. From the color point of view: in this animal year, you should wear less clothes that conflict with the traditional life of the core monuments of life. For example, friends who belong to the Year of the Rabbit should wear as little gold, silver and white clothes as possible without knowing the likes and dislikes of the eight characters, so as not to affect their health or fortune. From the point of view of accessories: In this animal year, you should wear less accessories that conflict with the traditional life of the core monuments. For example, friends who belong to the Year of the Rabbit should wear gold, silver or metal ornaments as little as possible to avoid trouble without knowing the likes and dislikes of the eight characters. From the point of view of diet: in the animal year, eating less spicy and greasy food and eating more light and green vegetables will also be beneficial to physical and mental health. Emotionally speaking, in this animal year, we should properly handle the relationship between partners, strengthen spiritual communication, care for each other in life, calmly handle contradictions, and don't escalate, let alone go online, or expose weaknesses, so as to maintain the stability and happiness of marriage and feelings.