In that case, please feel free. If the parents of both parties exceed 10, you can book a private room with 2 or 3 tables.
If the younger generation can't sit at the main table, parents and grandparents on both sides can go to the next table.
At that time, just send tea to both parents and get red envelopes. If you want to pay attention, you can increase activities such as eating jiaozi and noodles.
But from the perspective of saving money, in fact, this is not saving money.
Because this basically costs 2000-5000 yuan to get a table, and the amount of red envelopes is similar.
Colleagues will feel uncomfortable not being invited.
And a grand wedding with 20 tables * each table 10 people actually costs about 20-50 thousand yuan.
But even if 200 people only give 200 yuan a red envelope, it's still 40,000 yuan.
Nowadays, few people send such cheap things. Usually the bag is about 600 -800 yuan.
There are also many wedding cars, make-up, flowers, candles, decorations and so on. In fact, the bigger you do, the more you save money, because if you have 10 tables, they are all indispensable, but most of the decorative materials used for 30 tables still consume so many fancy dresses, motorcades and so on. And only spend drinks and meals.
But we all know that the wedding banquet must be a person whose red envelope is greater than the actual cost of eating. The standard banquet of 100 is very advanced, but everyone gave a red envelope of 100.
Therefore, if you hold a banquet for 20 -30 tables, you can actually charge tens of thousands more on the red envelope.
It will only be very tiring, but once in life, at least it will make both sides have face and no regrets at home.
2. Can the married parties hold a banquet together?
Statement: I am married, and I hosted a banquet in June 20 13, for both men and women.
1. For example, are the gifts collected separately or together? Parents of both sides said that they would give us the gift money when they received it, but they didn't want it. ) Let's split the gift money. There is not much relationship between the man and the woman, which can save a lot of unnecessary trouble. After all, in the past, the human feelings of both sides were paid by both sides, and now I know how much I have paid back.
As for giving you a gift or something else, it depends on how you discuss it with your parents. 2. How should catering money, wedding and various expenses be appropriate? (My family has about 20 tables, and his family has about 15 tables. ) Can the banquet money be paid with the gift money received at this wedding reception? My suggestion is that the man is in charge of the man, the woman and the man share a part (for example, the man buys a banquet list for relatives), and the drinks are settled together. It's not awkward at all.
This is not a lot of money, which can show that the man holds the wedding banquet and the wife has the sincerity to do this wedding well. Actually, that's what I did, and the effect was quite good.
For example, the money for the wedding is paid by the man. After all, this is mainly for the man. His parents' attitude is to let us do whatever we want, but my father doesn't quite agree with us because they haven't met and are afraid of gossiping with relatives and friends.
In fact, since his parents can do whatever they want, your father doesn't agree, because your father wants your baby daughter to get married, so beautiful. In fact, you have to understand the intention of being a parent, but you still have to do their ideological work. Just listen to your relatives and friends, it doesn't necessarily affect your consciousness of hosting a wedding reception. In fact, many times you have to explain to your parents or communicate with your husband.
You got it? 4. What are the advantages and disadvantages of two families together or what should we pay attention to? How can we communicate with our parents better? The advantages are all visible: 1. The scene is big. You can spare time and energy. 3. Save unnecessary repetitive expenses.
The disadvantage is actually talking about money. When both sides talk about money, they will hurt their feelings. Of course, you and your husband are the main body of this. Understand each other. After all, it is not easy for both parents to help you when you get married.
It is impossible not to say a bad word. Try to be considerate and understand each other's feelings and moods. So I won't say so much, these are my feelings, and that's what I came to tell you.
I hope it helps you.