"I just sent that boy back, and I cried." The husband took a sip of cold water and seemed a little distressed.
"That's what I meant when I asked you out for a drink in the middle of the night." I poured him a glass of warm water. See him nodded somberly.
"They have been in love for four years!" "Yes!" My husband and I were silent.
Liu Yu, divorced. This is really the most shocking news I have heard in recent months.
Because I still clearly remember last summer vacation, at their wedding, I first met the bride in a white wedding dress and Liu Yu in a black suit. They are so well matched. Although not handsome, but an ordinary life, an ordinary couple, living an ordinary life is not bad. As a result, this marriage lasted for about a year, but it ended in such an abrupt ending.
My ears seem to be ringing again, and I was deeply impressed by the bride's confession at the wedding.
Liu Yu, an employee of a state-owned enterprise, was sent to the township as the first secretary by the company because of the country's precise poverty alleviation policy. Need to be stationed in towns and villages for a long time. So they fell in love for more than a year. During this period, once the bride was sick and uncomfortable in the middle of the night, Liu Yu learned that she drove to the bride overnight, stayed with her all night, and drove back to the village the next morning!
Sitting next to the banquet, I heard the bride sob many times when describing this dramatic confession, and her tone was mixed with suppressed sobs. I dare not say that I touched the relatives and friends present, but the bride on the stage was moved, because this man in front of her is the one she really loves and she is willing to marry! She is willing! Because they have been together for four years.
Yes, four years, in this materialistic era, four years of love, whether for boys or girls, is not easy!
At the end of the bride's confession, Liu Yu said, "Wife, I will be good to you all my life!" " Pushing the wedding to a climax, the young people coaxed and the elders laughed.
I wonder if Liu Yu, who was drunk and unconscious tonight, can remember one or two things.
Love, when taking an oath, always confidently thinks that it is rock solid. When a contradiction breaks out, it is like the moon in the water. It will break at the touch, so that you don't even remember its original appearance.
Although Liu Yu's divorce was a bit sudden, it was not without warning. In the last month or two, the frequency of drinking between the two brothers has increased. During the period, the couple also had signs of contradiction. My husband only thought it was a small fight between husband and wife, and advised him to make up, so he didn't care. I didn't expect it to end in divorce.
It seems that there is really no big contradiction in correcting the reasons, and there are still some platitudes in the details. First, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not so harmonious, but the two sides don't live together, which is not a big problem. Second, the man works too much overtime, and the woman feels that there is too little companionship, but this situation has been experienced for four years before marriage! In the end, I lost in the marriage.
I have to admit that their divorce was impulsive, but it suddenly made me realize that love can be as solid as a rock, but marriage is like a bright moon in the water, which needs careful care. If the careful machine in love is brought into marriage, it will be broken.
This seems to be a very familiar problem. When you are in love, you are inseparable. If you don't get married, you can hold your hand and grow old with your son. And really one day after entering the circle of married life, I was surprised to find that this is not a lover, and I blame myself for being too impulsive!
Is this really a bad person? If so, four years of long-distance love is not enough for them to get to know each other? Maybe there is a problem in love, and both sides feel that they have to consider so much before they get married, which is very annoying. I put the question aside and ignored it. Speaking of marriage, it's a little unworkable to treat the same problem with such a love attitude.
It is said that love is a matter for two people and marriage is a matter for two families. The problem of two people is easy to solve, but the problem of two families is much more complicated! We must deal with marriage in a new way. If you always deal with it in the way of love, it must be a cow's head and a horse's mouth, and it will end in failure.
This may explain why some people run for years and go their separate ways as soon as they get married. Some people get married in a flash, but they are both happy.
I want to share this article with you and the people I explored in our marriage. Marriage is not easy, but also ok and cherish ~