Because in today's society, it is too easy to say love, and it is too difficult to walk all your life. Many couples didn't get together in the end, mostly for one word: money. Even two young people who love each other deeply can be torn to pieces in front of all kinds of realistic things put forward by their parents and elders. Moreover, nowadays, it is common for society to keep up with the joneses, and marrying a wife and a daughter is the object of parents' comparison. However, there are also many enlightened parents. As long as you are a self-motivated boy who will hurt people, they will basically not be too opposed. But as far as I can see, this situation is not much.
For example, when two people are together, they first look at each other pleasing to the eye, love to tolerate themselves, and have the same values (there are * * * topics). I think a lot of love is produced over time, which makes sense. After getting along for a long time, your requirements for appearance and family conditions will gradually fade. There are only two people, maybe there is no vigorous feelings, and there is no love at first sight.
But you should know that if you understand each other, you can get along happily according to your own ideas, and you will have dull, simple and long-term happiness when you are alive. Love is what everyone wants, but not all lovers in love are suitable for marriage. This process must be clearly understood. Some people may not have married love, but now they have more happiness to be loved and cared for than themselves in love! Therefore, follow your inner thoughts and choose your own marriage, even if you turn back, you will not regret it.