Frankly speaking, after divorce, many people try their best to get their relatives and friends to introduce them in a hurry. At the same time, they will ask themselves to find a second marriage partner. After the divorce, they still choose people, find handsome guys, have a house, have a stable job, treat TA well, but never know themselves clearly.
Recognizing oneself refers to the individual's cognition of his own existence. When you are looking for a second marriage partner, you should first look at what kind of person you are and what you have. You don't. In the state of divorce, there is no need to ask the other party to do it like the first marriage. Only after you know yourself clearly will you know who you really are. In this way, you will have a clear goal when looking for a second marriage partner, not a headless fly.
In addition, if you don't want to see yourself clearly and feel too troublesome to face up to your bad self, then the person who introduced you will also calculate your overall situation in your mind and find a match for you. If you feel that the introducer can never introduce you to your satisfaction, don't blame the other party, because what kind of person is the blind date introduced to you by the other party, and what kind of person is your image in the eyes of the other party? To put it bluntly, it is half a catty.
Second, know who the other party is in many ways.
The losses suffered in the first marriage must not be repeated in the second marriage. When you get married for the second time, don't quickly agree to the other party's request for marriage with a temporary favor. Think about it carefully. You couldn't see through the people who lived under the same roof before, and finally saw each other's true colors in the divorce. But after just eating a few meals, saying something nice and doing something that moved you, did you really see it clearly?
We still need to inquire about each other from many aspects, such as the family background of each other, relatives and friends of each other, and colleagues and neighbors of each other to know who ta is. In short, ask more questions, see more, and consider whether to hold hands after comprehensive judgment.
Some divorced people are actually very smart. They made a mistake of principle and won't tell you at all. They all lie and hide from you. If you trust ta too much, you will easily fall into the trap dug by the other party.
Therefore, it is not a bad thing to ask more questions and pay more attention to divorce.
Third, children should pay attention to the remarriage of the elderly.
As mentioned above, all young people remarry, which is the old people. In real life, there are still some people who have been divorced or widowed before and have not remarried, and have devoted their youth, time and energy to their children. Now, seeing that her children have grown up and become married, ta also has plans to remarry and wants to find a wife to live with.
Is it necessary for the elderly to remarry? From the point of view of young people, they don't think it is necessary. After all, they are all so old and still fooling around. But for the old people, every day is lonely without a wife, because the home is really empty and terrible, and it is very painful to spend every day with an empty house, TV set and radio. What's more, they didn't know until they called their children, not for the first time.
Uncle Zhang next door just wants to remarry and find a wife. His purpose is simple. Children have children's lives. He can't keep bothering them, find his wife, don't be greedy for each other, and don't make them pay anything. He just wants to find someone to chat, eat and watch TV with, and it is enough to kill boring time.
Everyone has the right to pursue happiness. Children should pay more attention to the remarriage of the elderly, and stop imprisoning their parents on Xiaotian's side. If they can meet the right one, they should try their best to fix it up. At the same time, we should also pay more attention to each other's personality to prevent encountering liars.