These proverbs have been re-processed by the people and made into jingles or homophonic stalks, which are also widely circulated.
There are many customs and cultures in our country. Every Mid-Autumn Festival, most young people choose to go home and have a reunion dinner with their relatives.
It is a very traditional custom to enjoy the moon and eat moon cakes in the Mid-Autumn Festival.
Our country also attaches great importance to cultural etiquette, especially in rural areas, which is a society that attaches great importance to human feelings, and the neighborhood relations in rural areas get along very harmoniously.
There has always been a saying in the countryside that distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, which means that distant relatives are not as good as neighbors around them. This sentence is a good interpretation of the deep friendship between rural people.
Generally speaking, when rural people encounter any difficulties or troubles at home, neighbors will be willing to lend a helping hand.
This is very different from people in the city, who generally don't pay much attention to contact with outsiders.
However, with the development of the times, there is a very strange phenomenon in the countryside now, which has changed a lot from before. Now, people don't blame red gifts, but people don't accept white gifts. What does this mean?
First, red gifts are not available to people.
First of all, this proverb is also very popular in rural areas now, which makes many rural people feel the same way.
Everyone born in this world will experience birth, illness, death and illness, which is inevitable, and we will experience many joys and sorrows in one day, which are our own emotions and constitute people's complex emotions.
The countryside is a place that attaches great importance to etiquette and pays special attention to rules.
If rural families have very festive events such as getting married or having children, they will choose to hold a banquet in their hometown city.
Because the land resources in rural areas are very large, many rural people can put a few meals at home and invite their neighbors and friends to a banquet. They can announce the good news and share the joy at the same time, and the people attending the party are also happy.
Under normal circumstances, neighbors will definitely attend the banquet after receiving the notice from relatives and friends.
Generally attending banquets, of course, you can't go to this time empty-handed and you don't need to buy gifts. Money is a custom handed down from the previous society.
Giving a red envelope directly can express the blessing to the couple, and can also express one's mind.
The amount of money is also determined according to everyone's intimacy and family situation. In recent years, many rural people have gone out to work.
After receiving the news, they couldn't get back to their hometown for dinner in time. They may submit funds in other ways, which the general organizers will understand very well.
Not everyone in the countryside will attend the party when informed by relatives and friends. They will decide whether to attend according to their relationship and distance.
If the host doesn't invite his friends to the party, others won't take the initiative to attend.
Second, Bai Li is not accepted.
In rural areas, apart from holding festivals, they also attach great importance to funerals.
Everyone's ultimate destination is to leave this world, and the leaves will eventually return to their roots. The best way for family members to try is to have a good burial and give them a decent funeral, so that they can be buried as soon as possible.
Then why do rural areas say they don't accept Bai Li now? This is mainly because there are obvious differences between red and white cities. If the host wants to share this joy, the people who come to participate also want to share a festival.
Even if the parties don't come, as long as the money is there, there is nothing wrong.
However, if someone dies in the family of a relative or friend, in this case, you can't give them the money directly without anyone present, which is disrespectful to the deceased.
Generally, people invited to funerals are basically close relatives and friends. If they don't attend the funeral of their loved ones, it will be considered disrespectful.
No matter what is important, you have to go home to attend, which also shows your grief for the deceased.
If you don't attend this time, if there is a funeral in this family, no one else will attend.
Summary:
Besides, the funeral needs the help of many relatives and friends, and the strength of this family alone is not enough.
Of course, going to a funeral requires not only the presence of people, but also money. In this case, the red envelope given is called a gift account.