First, get to know each other. Bian Xiao believes that if you want to get married, you must know friends from both sides, and in the process, you must get to know each other. If you don't know each other, after you get married, you will find that there are many problems that you can't accept. For example, the other person has some small habits or ideas that make you feel uncomfortable. If you don't understand when you are in love, you will find that the gap is too big after marriage, which leads to you.
Second, to understand each other's families, there is a saying that marriage is not a matter for two people, but a matter for two families. So it can also be proved from one level that marriage is not that simple, because marriage also involves two people's families, so if you are already planning to marry this person, then you must understand this person's family structure. Some people have poor families, for example, some people have single-parent families. If you care about yourself, Bian Xiao also suggests that you don't do this, because your parents may be unhappy and some people's families may have some problems.
Third, communication. In fact, many people are not good at communication after marriage. After marriage, these people are completely busy with their lives or work. After marriage, women have children, so this time they all live around them. In this case, the relationship between husband and wife will be bad, so if you want to step into the marriage hall, you must communicate with each other in advance.