1, customs vary from place to place, so you won't have a problem if you follow the customs. In most areas, the parents pay for the banquet, and then the money is also given to the parents. The man's parents pay for the banquet, and then decide who will collect the money according to the wishes of his family.

In fact, generally speaking, there are not too many women catering, and most families don't care about money. If they care, newcomers usually pay for these tables themselves to avoid family conflicts. In fact, these are small things. A more generous person usually pays for the whole wedding. If not, it is reasonable.

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Preparations for the wedding banquet:

1, Pre-preparation: wedding, venue, banquet.

2. Purchasing items: cigarettes, wine, water, candy and snacks, wedding dresses and wedding supplies.

3. Wedding room layout: bedding, preferably red, should be purchased in advance, as well as some new furniture and appliances, as well as "hi" copybooks, balloons, ribbons and so on.

4. Put some lilies, red dates, peanuts, longan, melon seeds and rose petals. In bed, it means that the two newlyweds get along well for a hundred years and have a baby early.