Marriage is a wonderful thing, and stepping into marriage is also an answer to their feelings. From then on, they will face ups and downs together.
However, as the saying goes, "men are afraid of going into the wrong business, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong husband." Although marriage is beautiful, many people are eager for it on the one hand and afraid of it on the other.
After all, there are so many people who divorce every day that many people don't want their marriage to come to this step one day. Some people will use some special means to protect their happiness.
For example, someone deliberately raised the bride price. In fact, they don't really want that much money, but they want to protect their happiness with a high bride price.
However, a happy life is run by yourself, not by high bride price, but by yourself.
Zhang Rong (a pseudonym) is the only child in the family, and the family conditions are not bad. His parents are also fond of Rong Zhang, and have no great demand for Rong Zhang. He thinks his son is very happy.
Although parents have no requirements for themselves and don't urge them to get married, Zhang Rong is worried when she looks at her married peers.
Relatives and friends have arranged blind dates for Rong Zhang, but many girls have been blind dates, and Rong Zhang doesn't like them. Mainly Rong Zhang felt that the gap between the two people's three views was too big, and there was nothing in common.
After all, Rong Zhang has received higher education, but she still wants to find a girl who shares her interests. Two people can work together for what they like.
It is said that the east is not bright and the west is bright. Although Rong Zhang didn't find a suitable blind date, she met a girl unexpectedly, which moved Rong Zhang very much.
Under the constant pursuit of Rong Zhang, Rong Zhang and the girl Linlin (a pseudonym) developed into boyfriend and girlfriend, and their feelings quickly warmed up when they met with fire.
Less than a year together, the two began to talk about marriage. Zhang Rong likes Linlin very much and thinks that Linlin is his destiny takes a hand.
However, Zhang Rong's parents don't like Linlin very much. They usually follow Zhang Rong's parents and take an unusually firm attitude towards Linlin.
The main reason is that Linlin's career is not like Zhang Rong's parents. In the eyes of the older generation, girls who work in bars are basically not good people.
No way, in order to get married, Linlin quit his job in the bar. At Rong Zhang's insistence, Rong Zhang's parents reluctantly agreed to get married.
As their parents didn't object, under the arrangement of Zhang Rong and Linlin, their parents sat together and began to discuss the details of their marriage.
After some bargaining, the two families finally reached an agreement. The man took out 200 thousand bride price plus three gold, and the woman married some household appliances and a car.
Finally, the two families chose a good day and set the wedding date in half a year, but the young people's ideas are different from those of the old people. They chose a memorable day to get a marriage certificate together.
But on the wedding day, Rong Zhang spent 50,000 yuan on opening expenses, changing her mouth and caring for relatives. Although Zhang Rong had some opinions in his heart, the other party said it was a local custom, so Zhang Rong had to admit it.
As a result, when Zhang Rong was ready to take the bride away, the woman's family asked Zhang Rong to take out three gold coins for the bride, so as to take the bride away smoothly.
This made Zhang Rong a little angry. Because Zhang Rong was busy with other things, he gave Linlin the money to buy Sanjin and asked Linlin and his parents to buy it.
Why do you have to ask yourself for three gold today? This is not bullying your honesty. Seeing that Zhang Rong was a little angry, Linlin immediately gave Zhang Rong an answer, which is actually a custom here.
When a man marries a wife, he should prepare two pairs of three gold coins. First of all, he should buy a pair and leave it with the woman's parents. On the wedding day, the man will take another pair, replace the one in the hands of the woman's parents, and then bring it to the bride.
This custom is a little hard for Rong Zhang to accept, but when he thinks that all the money has been spent, he acquiesces in the other party's statement, and there is no need to be hindered by such a trivial matter.
However, it must be too late to buy three gold coins now. In order not to delay the marriage, Zhang Rong decided to give some money for Linlin's parents to take these three gold coins out to Linlin.
See Zhang Rong said, Linlin's parents have no objection, went back to his room to turn over for a while, and finally took out a bag and took out three gold coins from several boxes.
Looking at each other's three gold coins, Zhang Rong felt that the other side was a bit deceptive. He gave Linlin more than 30,000 yuan to buy three gold coins with his parents. Now this looks fake and has a strong cheap taste.
People with a little knowledge can see at a glance that these three pieces of gold don't look like gold at all, so Zhang Rong asked a few words in a low voice, asking where the other party bought them and whether they were cheated.
Originally, this was a kind move. I didn't expect Linlin's parents to be unhappy. They told Zhang Rong they didn't want to get married, so they said they didn't want to marry their daughter to him.
Linlin's parents said that they bought their gold from relatives in the town. It's not for Zhang Rong to say that this is a complete dispute.
I asked a few words in good faith, but I didn't expect the other party to reverse black and white like this. Originally, getting married was a happy event, but Zhang Rong, who had been troubled for three transgressions of five times, was furious.
Clay figurines still have three points of resentment, what's more, Zhang Rong, a strong guy, wants to get married well, but now he seems to be begging them for a home.
Zhang Rong mentioned what he had brought and said to Linlin, who was sitting on the bed, "If you really want to marry me today, come with me now and I will wait for you at the door."
However, Zhang Rong waited at the door for a long time, but his girlfriend Linlin didn't come out. Angry Zhang Rong didn't want to wait any longer, so he turned to leave. He wanted to divorce Linlin, but he didn't get married.
For a marriage, the feelings of two people are more important. Paying too much attention to material things will push feelings to the abyss.
See Zhang Rong to divorce, Linlin also regretted, but no matter how Linlin begged, Zhang Rong still insisted on divorce with each other.
A wedding made Zhang Rong see through his wife and family. Just married, that's all. It can't be ridiculous anymore.
Like-minded marriages can last for a long time, and many feelings are actually temporary likes. If two people are very different in all aspects, it is difficult to stand the test of life.