Yes, for example, if your child wants to get married in the future, or if your child wants to take an examination of the school, it also needs manpower. Rural human feelings are: you helped me this time, and I will help you next time. If I call you this time and you don't help, you can't ask me for help next time. It is such a simple truth that it has also achieved the simple folk customs in rural areas.
In China, we have always said that human life is above everything, not only in rural areas, but also in the whole country. Because life is only once, if you can't do it again, you will be involved in your life if you are not careful. And then what? White matter? For a family, it is a sad thing that anyone who has lived with him for several years or even decades and whose emotional blood is thicker than blood suddenly disappears one day. Therefore, if someone in the village has an accident, even if they are enemies on weekdays, they will put down their choices and help each other. ? Saving a life is better than building a seven-level pagoda? . Human life is short and limited. Once someone dies in the countryside, I hope the deceased can get a better burial and enjoy bliss as soon as possible. This kind of thing will naturally be helped, and everyone will send the dead to the mountain for burial and cook together. This is a major event in rural areas and a respect for the deceased.
Happy events are usually held by many relatives and friends at home. These are all happy things, and the natural choice is in the hands of the owner. Only the invited people go back, and everyone is happy together, leaving themselves the most important sum in life. People with bad relationships won't even go, unlike people who have nothing to do. Moreover, what everyone values more is that life can live longer and enjoy the family happiness brought by children and grandchildren. So white things are the sorrow of many people, which is why white things will help more people than happy things.
We will always experience what life should experience, face it calmly and get through every hurdle of life.