There is such a custom in the northeast. You should know that the money for your marriage should come from your parents. Although you two became a family after marriage, regardless of each other, although your parents became relatives and in-laws because of your marriage, they are not a family, so the wedding forms are paid separately, and there is no problem with the gift money.

Now that you have reached the point where you are married, don't think too much, especially things that hurt your feelings. It's not worth it or necessary. Since you decide to live a happy life when you get married, don't listen to those men who have nothing to do. Married men are stingy and stingy. There is no need to listen to such obstruction. After all, the rest of your life is yours, and outsiders are watching. If you have a good life, you may not necessarily bless you, but if you have a hard life, you will.