Find a bigger hotel, have a wedding program together, and eat separately, with one area for male guests and one area for female guests. If this doesn't work, we'll set the wine separately, once for men and once for women. That is to say, the bride and groom should work harder, but before making such a decision, they must make it clear to their parents and guests, get the consent of both sides, and avoid any misunderstanding. I wish you an early completion of your big event.