During the Tang Dynasty, Zhang Junrui from Luoyang tried it, passed through Pudong and entered Pujiu Temple, an ancient temple. When he met Cui Jue's daughter Yingying, he fell in love at first sight. Garrison Sun Feihu mutiny, wai temple SuoYingYing, Cui Furen may be able to retreat to marry Yingying, Zhang Junrui made the monk HuiMing suicide note friend White Horse General Du Kui, led the troops to clear the way. Cui Furen broke his word, and Zhang Junrui turned to the matchmaker for help. The matchmaker freehand brushwork poetry. Zhang climbed over the wall at night and saw Yingying. Yingying blamed her, worried and angry, and she was ill. After that, the matchmaker led Yingying to make love; When his wife found out, he hit the matchmaker, and the matchmaker disloyal him. Cui Furen had to marry Zhang Junrui after the pilot exam.
From this story, we can see that the matchmaker is not an "introducer" for Yingying and Zhang Sheng to meet for the first time. Yingying and Zhang Sheng met by chance in Pujiu Temple. The matchmaker didn't "bridge" at first. For a period of time, she was instructed by Cui Mu to monitor their actions and control Yingying to prevent her from deviant behavior. Therefore, Yingying once complained that the matchmaker was "inseparable". The matchmaker replied, "It's none of the matchmaker's business. The old lady asked me to follow her sister. " The matchmaker is Cui's handmaiden, whose main duty is to serve and control Miss Yingying. It was the mutiny that changed the matchmaker's attitude and betrayed his duty. After the Buddhist temple met, the love between Cui and Zhang quietly developed underground. They "sing under the moon" and "look around the Dojo", missing each other, and good things are in sight. However, a storm broke out on the ground, and Sun Feihu soldiers surrounded Pujiu Temple, trying to take Yingying away as his wife. If Yingying is not handed over within three days, "Galand will be burned, and all monks and customs will be chopped to pieces, not one left". At this critical moment, Cui Furen made a decision and announced in public: "But if you have a plan to retreat, you will accompany Fang Biao and destroy Yingying as a concubine." Zhang Sheng was ecstatic, wrote a letter, recruited General White Horse, and retired 500,000 thieves. I always thought a happy marriage was just around the corner. However, the retired old lady broke her word and broke her marriage at the celebration dinner. The behavior of "refusing to get married" hurt Zhang Sheng and Ying Ying, which caused great dissatisfaction of the matchmaker. Since then, the matchmaker has stood firmly on Zhang Sheng's side and opposed injustice, so as to realize the marriage between Zhang Sheng and Yingying. She made suggestions for Zhang, handed books and letters to Yingying, worked hard, needless to say, and often endured the unwarranted accusations of the young lady, who was mercilessly beaten by the old lady. When Zhang Sheng said with sincere gratitude, "After a long time, I will repay my little lady with gold and silk." The matchmaker retorted, "Mr. Wang's money and things, as a reward with the matchmaker, are the gold goods that I love you?" With the selfless efforts of the matchmaker, the old lady finally gave in, and lovers Cui and Zhang finally got married. From this perspective, the matchmaker is not a "meddlesome" person who cares about the marriage in the world. So, she got involved in Cui Xie's marriage and became a "warm-hearted person" for three reasons: First, she thanked Zhang Sheng for saving her family through his chivalry. "I think our family, if not Zhang Sheng, how can we save our family's life?" Second, I am dissatisfied with the old lady's ingratitude and kick down the ladder. "It's my old lady's fault. I have caused great harm to the people's Yihai Enshan. " Third, she thinks Miss Zhang and Zhang Shenglang are a good match. "The scholar is the leader of the article, and her sister is a lady; One is familiar with three religions and nine streams, and the other is familiar with embroidery. " Therefore, the matchmaker's actions are not only out of "enthusiasm", but the performance of benevolence and courage; The connotation of the word matchmaker is not only a matchmaker, but also a symbol of a good morality of the Chinese nation. This kind of morality is: the grace of dripping water, the spring is rewarded; Sacrifice yourself and face it bravely; Use your selfless efforts to complete the happiness of others. This is the true face of matchmaker. She is fundamentally different from the ancient "matchmaker" in China. In ancient China, there was a saying of "three aunts and six women". "Sangu" refers to: nuns, Taoists and Guagu; "Six women" refer to: tooth women, matchmakers, teachers, devout women, medicine women and steady women. The "matchmaker" among the "six women" is a bridge between men and women who specialize in threading needles and making a living, rather than "selfless hard work". In ancient times, anyone's marriage had to go through the "formalities" of the matchmaker's words, and marriage without the "matchmaker's words" was not recognized by the family and society.