Nowadays, young people pay more and more attention to weddings. Before getting married, they must hold an engagement ceremony. At this time, the man needs to prepare a big gift for the woman. Of course, RMB and gold and silver jewelry are indispensable. At the same time, we women naturally want to return the gift to the man, which is the so-called betrothed woman return gift. Today, I'm going to tell you something about giving the woman a kiss in return.
1. Maybe there is no such thing in some areas. Young men and women get along well and don't care so much. But it still exists in many areas, just like in the north, the word bride price is called bride price. It is suggested that men can explore with their girlfriends before getting married, so as not to embarrass their parents and affect their feelings. ?
When the man comes to the house for the first time, he should prepare some gifts according to the preferences of his future in-laws. Grandfather can be cigarettes, wine and tea. You can buy clothes and cosmetics for your mother-in-law, and you can discuss with your girlfriend. At the same time, parents-in-law will also prepare red envelopes for the man. The same is true of the woman's first visit.
3、? On the day of engagement, parents, relatives and friends of both parties will get together to set up several tables of banquets, and the man will prepare a certain amount of bride price money, which is commonly known as the bride price in the north. The amount of gift money can be decided by private communication between men and women. These are basically things on the wine table, and parents are very happy.
4、? Wedding dresses, diamond rings and necklaces are also prepared by the man.
The wedding preparations are made by the bride and groom themselves, usually by the man. In some special customs, if the two families are far away, do it once. But now most newcomers choose to do it together, which is simple and economical. At the wedding reception, the parents of the bride and groom have to prepare red envelopes for the newlyweds, and some local customs have to pay the change fee. However, some brides and grooms choose to travel and get married without a wedding, which is not a romantic way to get married.
In fact, I think, what is the focus of this betrothed woman's return? Neither men nor women should attach too much importance to it. It is not easy for two people who love each other to get together. Marriage is a happy event. Don't make it too materialistic and let it lose its due joy.