Everyone hates lying and being cheated. Only those who love you will trust you. Trust is precious. If you are cheated, it is equivalent to betraying the trust of others. Once or twice, you may be forgiven. Cheating more often is like a wolf coming. Who will choose to trust you? When you tell a lie, you have to tell it with countless lies. Finally, you may not even know if you are telling the truth.
Hu Gang once loved a girl very much, so she could give him anything he wanted, but later he realized that the girl was a liar and didn't deserve his love at all.
Hu Gang chased Ji Min for three years before she got the heart of the goddess. After dating for more than a year, Hu Gang proposed to Ji Min, and Ji Min agreed.
Hu Gang is very excited because he can marry the person he loves. He took Ji Min and his friends to dinner. When his friends met Ji Min, they all felt that the girl and Hu Gang didn't really love him, just for his money. They all advised Hu Gang to calm down first and not to be carried away by feelings, but Hu Gang, who was in a passionate period, could not listen to his friends' persuasion.
Hu Gang asked Ji Min when she would get married. Ji Min said that she would consult her parents first, so Hu Gang followed Ji Min to her home and met Ji Min's parents. Ji Min's mother gave Hu Gang a difficult problem. She asked Hu Gang to give 6.5438+0.8 million bride price money. Only in this way will she agree to marry Ji Min.
Hu Gang did save some money after working for several years, but when she was in contact with Ji Min, almost all of the money was spent on buying gifts for Ji Min. Now let him take out 1.8 million yuan, but he can't take it out at all. Hu Gang is in trouble. He asked his mother-in-law to let him relax for a month, and he would definitely send the money after one month.
In order to make up this 1.8 million yuan, Hu Gang worked hard and did a lot of part-time jobs, but one month was really too short. No matter how hard he tried, he couldn't earn 1.8 million yuan. Just when he was at a loss, his mother-in-law suddenly found him and said to him, "Xiao Gang, I think you are very embarrassed. You don't have to take the bride price money.
Hu Gang got the beauty back without spending a penny. Not only that, but my mother-in-law also posted a dowry of300,000. All this made Hu Gang feel unreal, as if a pie had fallen from the sky and hit him right on the head.
Mother-in-law is willing to understand him as a poor boy and marry his precious daughter. Hu Gang felt very moved and vowed to live up to her mother-in-law's trust. He spent a lot of money to prepare a grand and romantic wedding, and the wedding day was very lively. Hu Gang and Ji Min worked all day to complete this once-in-a-lifetime ceremony.
The wedding night is when the young couple tease me. Hu Gang tried to touch Ji Min, but Ji Min dodged. She told Hu Gang that she didn't feel well. Hu Gang anxiously asked her what was wrong. Ji Min's words are evasive. She can't tell you why. Ji Min's attitude made Hu Gang suspicious, thinking that she had something to hide from herself.
Ji Min don't want to say, also not good let Hu Gang continue to cross-examine. Before going to bed at night, Ji Min suddenly cried out in pain, clutching his stomach. Hu Gang hurried to take her to the hospital. After arriving at the hospital, Hu realized that she had been pregnant for more than three months, because she was so tired today that she had to move her tires.
Knowing this news, Hu Gangru was struck by lightning. He never touched Ji Min. Where did the baby in Ji Min's belly come from? Hu Gang now realized why her mother-in-law changed her face. It must be because Ji Min was found pregnant and wanted to meet him, so she didn't want a bride price as a dowry.
Hu Gang felt very angry. Ji Min's family didn't treat him like a fool. The next day, he took Ji Min to his mother-in-law's house and said to her, "I'll tell you, how did you lose your temper and stop giving money? So you're afraid your daughter won't get married. Sorry, I can't raise children for others. Please ask your daughter to find an honest person to take over the proposal. I want to return! "
The two sides had an argument because of this, and all the neighbors knew about it. Finally, Ji Min not only divorced, but also ruined his reputation.
We used to hear the words "honest man" when relatives and friends introduced girls to each other. They will describe this person as an honest person with a stable job and so on. In the eyes of the older generation, if you marry an honest man, your marriage will last for a long time and girls will not be bullied.
But now honest people are not the same as before. Many girls marry honest people just because honest people are stupid and easy to bully. It is said that men are not bad and women don't love them. Some girls like to fall in love with interesting boys, but they want their marriage to be stable and happy, so there is a saying of "looking for an honest man to pick up girls".
Just like Ji Min in the article, she doesn't love Hu Gang at all. If it weren't for the unexpected pregnancy, she wouldn't even look at Hu Gang. She chose to marry Hu Gang only because she is honest, loves herself and is obedient to herself, in order to clear the name of the baby in her belly.
Such people are scum and bad people, and people are mutual. If you are honest with me, I will be honest with you. If you trust me, I will trust you. A marriage should be married because of emotional fit, not full of interests and calculations.
The most important thing for couples to get along with each other is trust and frankness. Lies will be exposed one day. Marriage with impure purpose has no future at all, and there will be no happiness.