I have known my boyfriend for four years. At first, he chased me. I was not interested in him at that time, but I couldn't bear his constant pursuit. I thought this man was honest and agreed to him. This commitment is four years.

I just graduated from college this year, and my parents often let me get married after graduation. I also told my boyfriend about getting married. Boyfriend said he went home and told his parents. His parents say it's okay, and the children are not young, so let's get it over with.

Later, the discussion date was set for the National Day wedding this year. When it comes to bride price, something goes wrong. Their family said that they could only pay a bride price of 30,000 yuan, and his younger brother was also planning to get married on National Day (saying that his younger brother's girlfriend's family wanted to ask for a wedding on National Day). They also said that only his brother's banquet was allowed, but my boyfriend and I wouldn't do it, saying it would save trouble.

Actually, it's not that I don't know about his family. His brother went out to work after graduating from junior high school. He just turned 20 this year, and his family still has some savings. His parents just gave all the money for his brother's marriage, which is unfair to me and my boyfriend.

So of course I don't want to, and I haven't heard of anyone who doesn't hold a banquet when they get married. I didn't elope with my boyfriend unless they eloped. Finally, I told my boyfriend that the banquet was ok and asked my parents to simply do it at my house, but later I said that the bride price was only 20 thousand. Now I have been arguing with my boyfriend's family about the bride price.

Ironically, on such a matter of principle, once you give in, you will give in again. I don't know how to accept when the other person is too nice. It was supposed to be a bride price of 30 thousand. Seeing that I am willing to compromise on not hosting a banquet, I think I can handle it easily. Now the already pitiful bride price is on sale again.

The man's family hosted a banquet to show his attention to his daughter-in-law. If the banquet is saved, they are spying on your bottom line. You must show a firm attitude: if you want to get married, you have to hold a banquet! Otherwise, you will be bullied passively like me.