In Henan province, many aunts and grandfathers directly gathered in the street to stop cars and ask others for money. It's a bit excessive for them to directly ask new people for corresponding money in this way. If they want money, they can give it to him with a touch of joy, but they don't think so, but want to get more money and keep talking. If they don't give the corresponding money, they won't leave directly.
Many people feel speechless about their actions. The money earned in this way makes many people very dissatisfied. When you get married, there must be many beggars to stop the wedding car. Those people also know this custom, so it is normal to prepare corresponding money for passing beggars, even beggars, to make them happy on this day. But if they stop like this and don't let the newcomers leave, it's a bit too much.
Moreover, this situation makes everyone feel that these people are simply robbing and don't want to add excitement to those newcomers. It's really wrong to ask others for money in this way. When I get married, I have marriage troubles. Good marital troubles can make the wedding more harmonious, and those people can have fun at this wedding and make them unforgettable. However, some marriages do go a little too far. Just like these grandmothers, stopping the car directly in this way has also caused a lot of trouble.
I also hope that other places will not engage in such behavior, which will make people feel speechless. Although this wedding custom exists, it should not be the basis for those uncles and aunts to ask for money. Asking for money so frequently will also make them lose money. It used to cost a lot of money to get married, but now it's time to get married, and those old people still do it, a bit like beggars.
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Niklas Luhmann is the son of a winemaker and an important