I think it is reasonable. If it was unreasonable, it should have been eliminated by society long ago. After all, with the rapid development of society, some bad customs will be replaced. Since getting married, buying a house and buying a car as a bride price, this matter still exists, which shows that most people recognize it. On the other hand, you got married with nothing and didn't want to marry him. Without material love, it's just a mess. It won't be long before you quarrel over all kinds of problems. If this is the result, it is better not to be together in the first place.

First of all, marriage is expensive. Many young people think that as long as there is love, they don't care about anything, and they don't care about any house, car or bride price. In fact, I think this idea is too naive. After marriage, I want to live a life of rice, oil, salt and vinegar tea. No money, only talk. With money, your quality of life may be improved and you can live a better life, but without money, you have to make do with everything. After a long time, you will get tired of this life.

Secondly, the bride price and the house and car are also some comfort to the woman's parents. After all, it is not easy for people to raise a child from an early age, but this girl is equivalent to a free nanny after she marries your family. It's a little sad for a girl's family, so I think it's too unkind to give her a little psychological comfort. If you don't give her anything, you cheat her away, don't you?

Finally, after marriage, the expenses are also very high. It may be just the two of you at first, but after a long time, you will have to take care of the children. Cultivating a child also requires a lot of money and energy. Children can't live a casual life as soon as they are born. So I think that love without desire and desire will definitely not be happy in the end.