Consult relatives and find a matchmaker.
Henan is located in the Central Plains, so it has its own wedding customs. Whether it is a matchmaker's introduction or free love, Henan newcomers need to talk to a matchmaker about marriage, which is the so-called "parents' life, matchmaker's words" in ancient times.
Bridal dowry
According to the custom of bride price in Henan, the average man will prepare about 60 thousand bride price money, three wedding gold, wedding room, the bride's new clothes, snacks and so on The woman will prepare the decoration of the wedding room and marry the new car as a dowry. However, in some areas of Henan, not only does the woman have no dowry, but the bride price she wants is also sky-high. Of course, this is also a rare case, and most parents are more rational. Ten days before the wedding, the man will give the bride price to the woman, which is called "the next ten copies".
Tiexi ci
In Henan wedding custom, both the man's house and the woman's house will hang some red happy characters on the wedding day. For example, in wedding rooms, hotels, doorways, wedding halls and so on. The specific time for posting happy characters can be posted in advance indoors, and other places should be posted on the wedding day. Moreover, after putting a happy word on the couple's home, guests can also find the place where the couple will hold their wedding in the direction of the happy word.
Flower worship hall before noon
When the bride arrives at the groom's house, according to the custom in Henan, the couple must get married before noon 12. Because during this time, the marriage path of husband and wife will be very smooth. Besides, this custom is very popular in most parts of China.