This problem may not be what you think. First of all, it depends on how your mother views this problem. If your mother thinks he is hypocritical, it may be that this stepfather is really hypocritical, and your mother agrees with him, which may be caused by your mental disorder. Besides, it is very difficult to be a stepfather, because only everything is good is good, and a bad one may lead to your misunderstanding and incomprehension, thus causing your mental contradiction. You should treat your stepfather in many ways. One is a person. You can't completely compare him with your dead father. For example, if your biological father slaps you, you won't hate him, but if the stepfather says you don't like it, you will say that he is not good to you. Besides, if this stepfather is not good, can your mother accept it? I think the main problem is still you. You should adjust your mentality in time. You think it is an insult and an advantage to you and your dead father, then you are even more wrong. As a student, you should know that everything starts from the heart and the mouth is the gateway to the heart. What you said is enough to prove that there is something wrong with your heart. Accurately speaking, it is not that you are poor, but that this stepfather is even more pitiful. His contribution cannot be understood and accepted, and in the end it is not. In short, if your mother recognizes him, it must mean that he is still a good stepfather, because her mother loves you. If his mother approves of him and you don't, it may lead to the loss of your mother's happiness again. Do you think this is appropriate? Therefore, we should consider the overall situation. As you are still young, you should adjust your mentality and treat everything correctly. I wish you a warm home and a harmonious family photo.