My brother's marriage was arranged by my parents. Because my brother is introverted and has never found a suitable girlfriend, my parents are very anxious. So, I arranged various blind date activities for my brother. Although my brother refused that kind of activity, I participated again and again under the pressure of my parents.
Many times before, the meeting was not satisfactory. Later, a female brother thought it was ok. So, my parents arranged a matchmaker to match my brother. In this way, my brother got married at the urging of his parents. Because I haven't known each other for a long time and don't know enough, I often quarrel because of trivial matters in my life after marriage.
I often tell my brother that since we have chosen each other, we should be more tolerant and understanding. In life, when you encounter problems, you should communicate more. It is fate that two people can come together. But my brother said that he didn't want to get married in such a hurry at all, and he hoped to meet the girl he liked. But his parents don't accept his idea and hope that he can get married and have grandchildren as soon as possible. But I ignored my brother's feelings.
Now, my brother and sister-in-law have children, but I think they are not happy. Because I always see them quarrelling as a bee, I can't feel the happy atmosphere every time I eat together.
I am different from my brother. I'm a boyfriend. I talked about it myself When I was in college, I was pursued by a boy I liked. Later, at the repeated request of the boy, I accepted him and became his girlfriend. During college, whether in class or going out to play, we will be together and feel very happy and romantic. In this way, many couples in the class broke up after graduation, but we didn't.
We stick to each other's initial intentions. After graduation, our jobs were not assigned to the same city. You were going to break up, but the boys insisted. After working for one year, he asked the company to transfer to my city, and the company agreed. From then on, we worked in the same city. Later, when my job was stable, I told my parents that I had talked about my boyfriend, and my parents asked me to take it home to show them.
After meeting my parents, my parents felt that the boy's family condition was too bad, and his home was far from mine, so they didn't agree with us and asked to break up. They introduced me to a boyfriend, but I didn't want to. That's it. We insist.
I don't want to break up because of my stubbornness. My parents are disappointed in me. They don't want to care about me anymore. No matter how I told them how good our relationship was, my parents wouldn't listen and thought I was ignorant. Every time they arranged for me to meet the boy, I refused. After a long time, my parents gave up. Although our parents were reluctant when we got married, we still chose to be together.
Now, we have been married for a year. This year, our feelings have not changed, just like when we were in love. We are also constantly striving to improve our lives. Prove to my parents that we are happy together.
Compared with the marriage of my brother and sister-in-law, I think my insistence is right. What you choose is always the best for you. Whether you live in poverty or wealth, you can face it together. You won't blame each other because you disagree. More is understanding and tolerance, and you cherish each other's feelings more.
So I think the marriage arranged by parents is unhappy, and only those who choose can live a happy life.