My best friend got married and I was invited to the wedding. I went to the hotel early that morning to see what I could do. As soon as we arrived at the arranged wedding scene, we heard the bride and groom quarreling. After listening for a while, I realized that according to the number of people reported by the woman's family, the man had booked a banquet. Several distant relatives couldn't come to the wedding reception, but they may be in a bad mood. On the same day, they chartered a car from other places to the wedding scene. Well, we have to add four or five tables at a time.
My buddy quit, saying that there is no such thing as your family, and now there is no time to add it. Let them go home and leave me alone! The bride is not easy to mess with. If she says no, the wedding won't take place. I'll find my own hotel to say hello to my relatives! He said, what do you mean? The wedding is coming. You left me hanging here. Are you out of your mind? The bride said, why are you so ugly? Just add some tables. I will pay for it myself. You are a man. hold it ...
There was a rehearsal in the morning, and the woman was so angry that she broke the microphone. Everyone present was scared silly. I don't think I've ever seen this battle before. I'm really afraid that this wedding will turn into a moth to a fire. The man's parents were busy talking about alcohol, tobacco, sugar and tea when they heard the wrong voice. Persuade him quickly, directly scold his son for not being sensible, and tell the bride that he can add some tables if necessary. Tell his father to tell the hotel not to cry.
The bride cried all over her face with makeup, and was finally coaxed into making it up. I didn't see the bride's smile all that day. Later, I talked about him. Isn't it just adding a few tables? Do we have to quarrel with others? What he said was rushing headlong, and I regretted seeing her cry.
I think it should be added. Just in time.
1, at that time, five tables of banquet should not be a big deal, nor will it be of much use. As for the man's refusal, it may be because the woman's conditions did not make the man happy.
If you want to add some tables, you should say so in advance. Do we have to wait until the wedding day? I can only say that that woman is also quite funny.
Our rule there is basically to reserve three or four tables. If there are too many people sitting, it will be ugly. So it shouldn't be a problem to be on our side.
On the morning of a friend's wedding, the woman's uncle called and said that the woman's mother was in a bad mood at night and wanted to add a bride price of 5 thousand. In this way, there will be more bride price. But that man's father drank too much that day and scolded his in-laws in front of everyone. From now on, I will die of old age. Of course, there is nothing between men and women. Time to go, time to go.
In fact, everyone has decided to discuss it. Don't let go at the last minute. People who can't swallow that tone won't get married. But let's say it in advance. Marriage is no joke!
On the wedding day, the woman offered to add five more tables, but the man refused. The details were not disclosed, and she could only answer questions.
Wedding banquets are held jointly by men and women, usually in hotels. In principle, the man is the main one, and both men and women will decide the number of participants before ordering the banquet. But the number of people attending the banquet can only be roughly estimated, and the absolute number is impossible. According to experience, the hotel will suggest reserving 1 for table 2 before booking a banquet.
On the wedding day, the woman suddenly proposed to add five tables, which was rejected by the man. That man really shouldn't. He is cold-blooded and heartless.
Getting married is a big event and a good thing. Relatives or friends of the woman came to congratulate him. Newcomers are all guests, respecting the woman and the man. Suddenly a guest came, the woman was unexpected, and the man was not difficult. If this simple thing is not handled well, it will also cause quarrels, not only because of the man's ability, but also because he must have problems in dealing with people. At least, on the wedding day, it is also disrespectful to his relatives or friends.
In fact, this problem is easy to handle, so don't argue or argue. We booked table 1-2, and made it clear to the relatives of the man that several tables should be reserved for the guests of the woman to sit at that table. If the man's relatives sit in the back or add a chair, it won't be strange if they don't solve it. Female guests will also be arranged. Everyone is happy!
Perhaps, the groom's official is wronged to take her family home, and she feels uncomfortable. He took advantage of the woman's sudden visit to increase his seat, and the groom gave her a duel. That's not right either, everyone who comes is fine! Be generous and don't hold grudges, that's the psychology of a villain, what's more, there are so many guests present, which is really a great shame this time!
Of course, the groom knows that he is wrong, and he must immediately admit his mistake and seek the woman's understanding. Otherwise, the woman will not forgive. I hope this wedding can be held as scheduled!
I think it depends on the specific reasons. The woman will never ask for five more tables for no reason. When my sister got married, my brother-in-law's family decided in advance the number of people going to our side because our family was in other places, so it was convenient to book a banquet, but for fear of fluctuations in the number of people, for example, some families would come for two people, so they booked two more tables when booking a banquet. I thought at that time, even if people didn't come, it was ok to have another meal in the evening. Later, on the wedding day, the number of people really exceeded the forecast, and there was an extra table, just right.
I think getting married is a big deal. In fact, before getting married, it is necessary to make it clear whether relatives of both sides can come and how many people can come. If you are really not sure, book more tables, just in case. If the man says that you have decided the number of people to eat, but you need to add five more tables, this is unreasonable. I think it is necessary to analyze the reasons why the bride does this.
Some brides may want to invite their parents to a wedding banquet to save face, and promise not to pay for it, but it's hard to tell their in-laws, and then add a few tables temporarily on the wedding day, thinking that the man will have to agree if he doesn't agree. If that's the case, I think it's really a bit too much.
Some relatives may feel that they didn't want to go to the wedding so much at the moment, but they found that many relatives went, and it was not good to go, so they decided to attend, which led to an increase in the number of people and only a few more tables. I think it is understandable for such a situation. After all, relatives will give gifts when they come. It doesn't matter if there are more tables. Why are you unhappy?
To sum up, I think if relatives come and the man refuses to add more banquet, it depends on what the bride thinks. If the man has a bad attitude, then the marriage may really fail.
Hehe, this is just a matter of adding five more tables on the same day and solving it on the spot! But on my first day of marriage, I confirmed that six cars came from Sina. I was worried that there were not enough guests at home, so I called a few more colleagues. But on the wedding day, only four cars came from Sina, which made me very angry.