? First, economic reasons, whether falling in love or getting married, need to be spent. Especially when getting married, the cost of purchasing before marriage and the cost of raising a family after marriage make many men shy. Why do you feel that you are at the end of your rope to get married? Wait until you have a certain economic foundation. I don't want to worry so much about money.
? Second, the sense of responsibility. Marriage means responsibility and dedication. When men feel that their shoulders are not strong enough to bear the responsibilities they will face in the future, they will choose not to think about it for the time being. Many men think marriage is very important. When they get married, they will come to the end of their lives and never look back. Persisting for such a long time requires good psychological pressure resistance. When self-judgment is not yet able, men's choices are still waiting and procrastinating.
Third, the concept of marriage is incorrect. In their view, marriage is the grave of love and is regarded as a creed. After marriage, I was bound, not free, and couldn't do what I wanted. This kind of people, psychologically belong to people who haven't got acne yet. Let him be free for a few years, maybe something will cause deep attachment in the future. Man is an animal with a strong sense of belonging and has human instinct. Not now, but there will be in the future. Just like birds flying in the sky, no matter how free they fly, they will eventually fall to the ground.
Fourth, it is very important, that is, the reason of women. No suitable object can be found. Nowadays, girls are also influenced by social habits. They value money and despise feelings and responsibilities. It feels like a barter. Without feelings, love is meaningless, let alone getting married.
It is a fate to find your other half and live to be a hundred years old. Everyone has his own destiny, just follow it!