Unlike China, the earliest best man in the West was to avoid the assassination of an enemy or the curse of the devil. Therefore, at the large-scale wedding in ancient Rome, the best man was actually a bodyguard or killer to ensure the safety of the couple, wearing the same clothes as the couple, waiting for an opportunity to kill the enemy and make meritorious deeds, and then gradually evolved into what it is now. However, from the perspective of preventing the groom from drinking and participating in various abnormal games today, the essence of the best man is still the same-protecting the groom. 1. Farewell to the bachelor party-the bachelor party is different from the bride's bridal shower-the bride's wedding party. It is natural to bid farewell to singles, drink a lot, pick up girls, and even invite dancers to play a song. You can do whatever you want, and the taste is up to the groom. And the degree of madness is controlled by the best man, who is the groom's best friend. Before that, I had the courage to have a group of friends, and I finished it once. After that, I had to behave myself and go hand in hand with my own woman. So such a party is essential. The only premise and criterion is to ensure that the groom appears at the wedding on time and safely the next day. 2. Make sure that the groom arrives at the wedding hall on time. The wedding auditorium is similar to our hotel, but it is a little different. Not enough budget can spare you a whole day, especially in famous parishes and churches. It is necessary to make an appointment in advance. It is still true that you or your family are well-known believers in the parish. Therefore, each couple usually only has one hour to salute at most. Considering that weddings are usually on weekends, the best man should not drink too much except for the farewell bachelor party the day before, and he should also estimate the traffic situation the next day to ensure that the newlyweds salute on time. Third, take care of the wedding ring. You know that the groom must have been drunk the day before, so in order to avoid being busy at the scene, the custody work was handed over to the best man as usual. As an author, I once accidentally put it in the bathroom, but fortunately I found it in time, which almost caused danger. So it is suggested to put it in the safe, get up early the next day and put it in the suit pocket until the wedding. Being a witness is different from domestic customs. A witness is a person who witnesses the marriage of a husband and wife, not a famous person, such as an elder in the husband and wife, a social sage, or the most common direct supervisor. At this time, basically, as the best man, you can have a rest, because most of the work has been completed, you can temporarily relax and silently bless the couple in the wedding March. Speech at the wedding and thanking the bride can be prepared in advance, so most of them are scripted. After the solemn announcement of the priest and the sweet blessing of the couple, the best man needs to adjust the atmosphere at this time, so this moment's speech can usually show his sense of humor, and you can make a little joke on the groom. For example, a dead boy who was so miserable before actually embraced a beautiful woman at such a moment today. Of course, finally, thank your partner, the bridesmaid. This is not easy for everyone. To the bride and groom. To xx and xx. This is a classic sentence pattern, you can write it down. You can have a drink at this time, because it is only one step away from the end of the final wedding. Taking advantage of the harmonious atmosphere of the speech: "Come, let's raise our glasses to xx and xx!" " The only thing to pay attention to is not to say the wrong name, just say the object you like. 7. Decorate floats. The couple is about to leave for their honeymoon in a wedding car. Our last thing is to decorate the wedding car with ribbons, jars and balloons. This requires the best man to prepare in advance. It is recommended to make cans in advance and put them in the trunk. It's too late to blow balloons on the spot, so we can only ask a wedding company or a professional clown to do it. After completing the above seven tasks, the western-style best man can call it a day, relax and have a drink with friends or bridesmaids. Maybe your bride is among them.