The first one is your local customs. That is to say, what is the bride price given by most local people? This custom does not mean that we must follow it. We can take the middle value between the highest value and the lowest value.

2. The second is how much your family can bear. When many boys look at their own financial resources, the main reason for the collapse is that their family conditions are not good, but the woman's requirements are relatively high and can't meet this requirement. At the same time, they don't want their parents to work hard for decades to pay their debts because of marriage.

The third point is how high this girl is in your mind. Why are you watching this? For example, in your mind, how much do you think the person you want to marry will make you pay? We can't measure the price of a girl, so the money should be raised by the girl herself.

Second, talk about how to end the bride price.

1. First of all, the bride price is out of the question. It must be because the current marriage customs have become a way to compare and show off the strength of the family. Many female families want their daughters to have a better life, and the first thing is money. The money around is a symbol of this social status, so the woman usually depends on the man's family conditions.

Therefore, it is very unfortunate for couples who are about to enter the marriage hall that the bride price talks have collapsed. Most couples choose to break up because of parents' pressure. Of course, there are also some couples who have made a positive result after a long period of persistence.