In my world, leaving means disappearing from my world forever, and it has nothing to do with this. Why don't you invite an irrelevant person to your wedding on such an important day?
In my emotional world, I can let the person who once hurt me come back to my world and judge my feelings at will, without coming first, let alone old feelings.
My predecessor, as I said, is just a word "money", a person who is not important to me. I don't need to show off in front of him how lucky I am to meet him after I left my husband.
Feelings are two people's business. Since we couldn't be together at the beginning, we couldn't persist, and we couldn't forgive and tolerate each other, then missing each other is the best explanation.
If my predecessor was invited, he just came. You want him to see your happiest moment and show it off. Let him regret that he didn't cherish you at first, and now he sees that you have found someone who can give you happiness and home. Is it another person instead of him?
So have you ever wondered if your groom would be unhappy at the wedding if he knew that you were boyfriend and girlfriend? I feel that since you are separated and still in contact, you don't care about him at all. He doesn't know, but he will know afterwards. You must have had a big fight because of someone who had nothing to do with you. It is not worth the loss to create a gap between you.
On the other hand, your predecessor. Not to go, not to show off the invitation, but to have no bottom in my heart. Then can I say that your heart is concerned about your predecessor? When you marry the groom, you always look at your ex's reluctant eyes or expect him to take you away.
As far as I'm concerned, I'm just a person who doesn't want to make do and never look back. Since I missed it, it's a lifetime thing. No regrets, no nostalgia.
Life is so short, life should look forward. Life is so long, life should be with a lover who is willing to spend his life with him.
Besides, in my eyes, it is very important to cherish a lover who cherishes himself. I don't want to make him unhappy. I chose it, even though I thought it was the best. I don't need others to judge my happiness.
I am a decisive girl. No contact, no contact, no love, no love. In my eyes, my favorite can only be my groom and his favorite can only be me. Similarly, I don't allow him to bring his predecessor. It's not unreasonable, but we should all respect each other.
I don't know what you think. In short, justify yourself! Yes or no, there are his reasons. As long as you communicate well with the groom, he knows he won't quarrel or anything. Look at your choice, her way. Even if a person who loves you will tolerate everything, you should take good care of it. Besides, you are testing his patience with your feelings.