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Are you going to the pre-wedding or not?
This week, the "seven tyrants" debated "Do you want to go to the previous wedding?"

The whole game is a chicken flying a dog jumping. I watched the new player's performance of overexertion, and the dirty jokes also laughed. What really moved me was the action and high last words that Yan Rujing didn't notice.

Sun told the story of the bear, and the camera gave a serious expression, while Yan Rujing bowed his head and took a sip of his drink, glanced at it subconsciously and smiled meaningfully.

In fact, before Rujing took action, I was wondering how Ma Weiwei would argue if she chose this holder. If her predecessor invited her to say, "Luo loves his World of Warcraft, so I love him very much", would she go after all?

Yan Rujing may be guessing that the journey is a girl's heart with stars and the sea, or something else, but the girl must have thought of her little bear, and Yan Rujing felt pity from the bottom of her heart. Ma Weiwei mentioned in her long microblog that in the days after her divorce, Rujing was really grateful to be by her side without saying a word.

I have had such friends, and even I belong to this kind of personality, so I understand the Qian Shan waters contained in those silences. Some things, friends can't do, only you can pass you, so I send you an umbrella in the heavy rain, but I can't just sit beside you sadly. The monster in your heart still has to fight by yourself, but when you are tired, you can look back with peace of mind and not warm a pot of wine for you anywhere. They never say anything, but I understand.

And the high is fanning my head, and the words that are not urgent and not slow are really in my heart. "The wedding is a ceremony, of course, but that's their ceremony, not mine, right? I bid farewell to my predecessor, and the best ceremony is my own wedding. This is the first point. Secondly, he did give you some ideas by writing this invitation, but not how determined he was, but how confident he was. So when you receive this invitation, you first know in your heart that he has full confidence and you can't win. "

After listening to these words, to be honest, I already feel that so many people should not be criticized for wanting to sleep in high Song Xiao.

So, do you want to go to your ex's wedding or not?

Not go. I, no, go.

What is an ex? Is a person you used to like very much, because of force majeure or variable factors, and finally failed to hold your hand and grow old with you. Why did you become your predecessor? Nothing more than several situations.

First, he doesn't like you, and you still like him.

You ask me why you still like him and he doesn't like you? To answer you, all the reasons you can think of are right.

A person who no longer likes you will not feel bad for you. He doesn't care about your mood when you receive the invitation, although he knows that you still have love; He doesn't care that if you go, you have to bear the strange eyes of everyone around you. He has poked a big hole in his heart and has to be natural and graceful. He doesn't care if you get drunk and cry when you get back. You have to believe that the newlyweds don't talk about life late at night, and he has no time to take care of you.

What excuse do you have to persuade yourself to go?

Because you've seen all his faces, you want to see the last one who doesn't belong to you? That's ridiculous. Why don't you think about whether he wants to see you? Anyone who knows that the other person still likes himself or sends an invitation is a bastard. What's the difference between this and deliberately bullying others because they like themselves?

I am really short of money for this kind of invitation with ulterior motives.

Second, you don't like him, and he still likes you.

To tell the truth, if you go, you will not be a person. He probably sent the invitation because he felt that at such an important moment in his life, he couldn't look at you and fantasize about the day without you. No, because it's unfair to his present position. Imagine that people look at their partner affectionately, only to find that their partner's eyes are all about you. Why would someone use their wedding to pay homage to your love for no reason?

Sometimes, not showing up is a respect for others. I don't need your blessing at present, and I don't need any social news at the wedding scene. Since you gave up that person from the beginning, you should be prepared not to disturb others at the critical moment. This is not inhumane, but moral.

Third, you don't like each other.

If I can really step down from the position of knowing each other and being ordinary friends, I will doubt whether this relationship is deep. Because all the good things come and go, nothing more than one person really doesn't love, and another person pretends not to love.

I don't usually go to ordinary friends' weddings because of the trouble.

Fourth, you still like each other.

This situation is terrible. Maybe she doesn't like you at this time, but she is habitually dependent. She doesn't want you to miss any important moment in her life. She thinks your relationship can be maintained before and after marriage. It's not the same thing that she doesn't like you anymore. She still longs for your tenderness, and her invitation is harmless.

But it is harmless and makes people feel better.

She knows that you like her, and you know that she is kind to you, but you know better that from now on, you are an outsider, and you can never be the first in her body and mind.

Imagine that you went that day and people praised them for their beauty. No one noticed that you were full of worries. The bride and groom came to propose a toast, and the groom proudly said thank you for taking care of her for so many years. The bride casually took his arm and thanked him sincerely.

Crash, you drink it all at once.

Then you see that she finally finished her merits, and she finally started the stage where life no longer belongs to you under your eyes. You don't know whether you touched her or yourself, so you can raise your glass again and say, I wish you happiness.

But only you know that wishing you happiness is true and wishing you happiness is false.

Why dare not admit that you are not generous enough to give up, but also force a smile; Why do you have to embarrass yourself and make others happy?

People should not be too greedy. They can't get married, but also enjoy love in the name of friends. Some people's hearts will hurt.

Are you sure I want to accompany you through every step, so you have the confidence to win, hold me to your chest and invite me to bless you, and it's a pity to say that I'm not here. But that's your regret, not mine. I just want you to know that when you get someone you love, you lose someone who loves you, which is fair and peaceful.

Cai Kangyong said that attending my ex's wedding is like reading the last page of a book, and I hope to see them finally happy. I believe him.

But more often, as Xu joked, you really take your predecessor as a responsibility.

In fact, we are really not that important in the eyes of our predecessors, just as you find that our predecessors are not that important in your heart in a few years. Humans should not overestimate their loyalty, all loyalty is loyalty to their own obsession.

Maybe our absence seems rude and heartless, and you will be unhappy and dislike it, but "Do you have to like this world?"