Learn to cherish what you have, and don't wait until you lose it to regret it. Feelings are fragile and can't stand the blow. I work as an accountant in a wedding company. Because of the particularity of my work, I need to work overtime frequently. Due to frequent contact with the head of the marketing department, we are very familiar with each other. Last week, the boss invited us to dinner because of the company's good performance. During the dinner, the marketing director drank too much wine. After dinner that day, he took my hand and asked me to stay with him.

I know he is married, and his wife is taking care of the children in his hometown. For this reason, I refused him seriously. But after going to work the next day, he invited me to the coffee shop downstairs and confessed to me again. I really don't know how to refuse this time. My husband and I have been married for four years, but my husband lives abroad and comes back once a month or two. Our relationship is not very good. He told me that because I look like his first girlfriend, I hope to take care of me by my side.

From that day on, I dare not face him. I think if he confesses to me again, I will definitely promise him. But I don't want my family to break up because of this derailment. I told my friend about it, and she asked me to make it clear to my boss at some time, so that he wouldn't have this idea again in the future. In my future work, I would try to keep in touch with him as little as possible. As for colleagues' dinners, I will leave after eating, and I won't have a chance to be alone with him. My husband works hard for our small family. At this time, if you defect and throw yourself into the arms of others, how can he feel!

I think what my friend said is very reasonable. Later, I may choose to resign. If I really lost my family because of my male boss, I really don't think it's worth it.

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