What's going on here? Listen to me in detail: It is said that a man got married, and his good friend went to the bank to get ten bundles this day, and one bundle was 100 Zhang Yiyuan RMB. So when I paid with money, I took out these ten bundles of one yuan. So, some people are curious about why they all give a dollar. Afterwards, my friend said: after my brother gets married, most of the money should be given to his daughter-in-law, so that he can change all the gift money into one-yuan notes to hide his private money. After listening to this reason, a table of friends and relatives laughed and cried, bluntly saying that this brother is a good friend.
So, what kind of attention are there now?
First, the number of gifts is generally determined by the intimacy of one's own relationship: the custom of giving gifts may be different in every place, but there are still many places that are similar. For example, whoever it is, be closer to yourself. Then when giving gifts, the amount is also more than others. If they are ordinary friends, I think: the amount of these gifts is not too big.
Like this good brother in the news, after marriage, he can have his own private money for his friends. This is also a gift, a gift of a thousand years. In the eyes of many people, the amount is really large. Because most people earn only a few thousand dollars, the groom still has deep feelings in his brother's heart.
Second, don't accept gifts for the sake of accepting gifts: in the past, many people often accepted more gifts in the name of accepting gifts, which is not worth promoting. For example, some touching wine, number one wine, or children's full moon wine. If you really want to invite your relatives and friends to dinner, please don't accept gifts. Don't go to too many banquets for the gift money, because you have to know that many friends are embarrassed to come to the banquet, and most people have no money.
Third, we can attach great importance to gifts. For example, some gifts should be wrapped in special red envelopes: like ordinary wedding wine, many new couples can receive gifts wrapped in red envelopes from relatives and friends when they get married, and write their names and greetings on the back. Many of these gifts are intended to give a good omen and celebrate new people. After marriage, the couple will also give many friends a small red envelope. I think this way of giving gifts will have a better meaning.