When there is a boss in our family, children often get sick because they are inexperienced and inexperienced in raising children. Later, we heard from them that we could receive training in this field. Just one of my classmates wanted to learn this, so we went together.
Our purpose is actually the same. She has no children yet. She also studied this to prepare for having children in the future, and had no intention of working. It's really different after systematic study. Taking care of children is really a way, and it has taught me a lot of parenting knowledge that I didn't know before.
Nurse and Yue Yue are two single subjects, but it is relatively cheaper to study together, so we study together. Later, we also gave our children a massage and a course of nutritious meals.
Although we didn't choose to go to work after studying, we got a job. Later, for a while, our family Dabao was often ill, so I took care of the children at home full-time, and I didn't go to work during this time.
One day, my teacher who studied as a baby nurse called me, and we always called him Miss Wang.
Although we have finished all the courses and graduated, we have never broken contact, and occasionally meet and get together, and we have become good friends. At the beginning, Mr. Wang started as a nanny and walked step by step to this day. Now he is a school administrator and teaches several classes.
As soon as the phone was connected, Sister Wang said politely, I want to ask you a favor. It is not the end of the year. Many baby nurses are very popular now. It happens that I have a list here. The nanny resigned temporarily because of something. The host is in a hurry because he can't find the right person to take over. Both of them are working, and his parents are old.
Sister Wang asked me, "Can you come and give him first aid?" If I have time now. "I thought for a moment, my mother-in-law can take care of the children at ordinary times. I have no job for the time being, but she will find someone to replace me as soon as possible after a month or two.
Sister Wang also specially emphasized that both the host and the couple are good-natured. The woman works in a TV station and the man is in sales. They have a particularly mild temper and a particularly good attitude towards the service staff.
I asked my husband's opinion again, and he said, "Yes, if you are willing to try it yourself, then do it and let you experience it." After all, you can't learn for nothing. In this way, I entered a stranger's home for the first time and took care of a baby of one year and three months for them.
It's the first time to accept such a job, I'm still a little uneasy, but the child is obedient and grandma is usually there. It's more than enough for two people to take care of a child, and we don't have to cook. Grandpa will come to cook at noon.
The job content is actually very simple, that is, to wipe the children's crawling mat when they go in the morning and to wipe the children's toys. The next time is to play with children and look after them, and their parents will go to work one after another.
Grandma will be here in a minute. If the weather is fine, we will take the children down to bask in the sun and play in the park. In about an hour, we will go upstairs for lunch. Usually we don't go out in the afternoon. Children will have about two hours' sleep. Basically, he's awake, and I'll get off work after a while.
After working for a few days, I got used to it. That day, my grandmother was not feeling well. Father asked for leave to stay at home with me to take care of the children. Mom is busy at work, working in TV station, and her time is not as free as dad's. Her father is in sales and her time is relatively free.
In the morning, the children spend most of their time with their father, who is also very patient, reciting Tang poems one after another to tell stories to the children. I also taught him to set toys, but at the same time, my father was very busy at work, with a Bluetooth headset hanging in his ear and making a phone call from time to time.
I cleaned there in obscurity. I can't sit around until my children find me. Now that you have been paid, you should do something you can. Although my job does not include cleaning, I can simply help them clean.
Towards noon, my father ordered a takeaway. The child was a little hungry at this time, so I fed him some milk powder. After a while, take-away food arrived, and three dishes were served: a 9-turn large intestine, a dry fried shrimp, a cold dish and a bottle of beer.
Unexpectedly, as soon as the food was delivered, my father said, "Xiao Liu, I'll look after the children first." You eat first. As a nanny, I work for others. How can I eat first? I refused: "Brother, you'd better eat first. "
Both husband and wife are much older than me. I was only in my twenties at that time. They are 39 and 40 years old, and they definitely marry late and have children late. So I usually call them, the male director is Zhang Ge and the female is Yang Jie.
But brother Zhang said that he wanted me to eat first. I'm a little kind and difficult, so I have to sit down and eat.
The man took the child to the other side to coax the child. He is afraid that he is here. I'm embarrassed to eat. I looked at the three rich dishes on the table. To tell you the truth, Jiuzhuan large intestine is my favorite, and it is also very bad at ordinary times. After all, the price of this dish is still too expensive!
But at this moment, I definitely won't eat those big dishes. I found a small bowl, filled some vegetarian dishes, took a steamed bread and ate it like this.
Because less than a week, and I don't know enough about children, children still choose to find their own father.
My idea is that since the child won't come to me for a while, I'll eat it. We northerners prefer to eat steamed bread. At that time, I ate the fastest steamed bread, nine turns of large intestine and dry fried shrimp. I didn't even move, just ate a few cold dishes.
It's not that I don't like or don't want to eat, but because I don't think the host has eaten yet. As an employee who works in someone else's house, how can he eat first? I know the price of those dishes.
This large intestine, that is, several large intestines, can be seen on a plate if you eat any one. In fact, the male advocate brother also saw it. I'm sorry. At dinner, he paused for a moment and then said, "Xiao Liu, why don't you eat?"
I can only say perfunctorily, "Brother, I ate a little too much in the morning. I'm really not hungry. Please eat quickly, and I will look after the children first. " Originally, this was my job, but I showed it to you almost all day. "
That family is really nice, including the hostess, and also a very understanding and particularly intellectual modern woman. Never treated me like a nanny.
At three o'clock in the afternoon, Brother Zhang said, "Xiao Liu, you should go home first. I'll watch the baby. You will be back soon. Thank you for your trouble today. "
My working hours actually end at 5: 30 in the afternoon, so I still feel a little guilty about coming home so early.
I'm a little embarrassed to say it. I know what the host means, that is, I don't have enough to eat at noon and let me get off work early. In fact, I am very touched, but to be honest, I don't know why. Working in other people's homes, eating less and not feeling hungry may be caused by the environment, but I still can't let go.
Later, I worked in this job for about a month, and I did have something at home. Then they finally found my replacement. When they left, their family was still very reluctant. On that day, the children's grandparents cooked a very rich lunch, and they insisted that I eat more, and tried their best to persuade me!
Grandma always said, "It's because I helped them a lot during this time. If I have nothing else to do, it would be great to keep an eye on them. After all, the child is finally familiar with an aunt, and it has changed, which is not good for the child's growth. "
Before I left, I brought many gifts and some toys to me and my children. These things are bought by people themselves, not because they don't have to pour them at home. I think this kind of work experience is very enjoyable, although I have no plans to do this job full-time.
You have to eat if you are kind. If you don't eat, it's boring for two people to push around. After all, one person can take over from another person to look after the children, cook and feed them.
The host lets you eat first, which is a respect for you, no matter whether your job is to take care of the children or to wash, cook and clean. If the host insists that you eat first, you can eat well, and you can pick some out with separate chopsticks.
Of course, another situation is not ruled out. Your employer has a different meal from yours. You should eat his food first. There's nothing wrong with that. People have their own rules of life, as long as we respect them.
If we can respect each other, the relationship between people will be more harmonious and beautiful, don't you think so?
My second aunt has a bad life. Widowed at the age of 30, she raised two children alone. Later, the children went out to work when they were older, but they couldn't even support themselves, and they asked their aunts for money from time to time.
But later, after being introduced, Er Yi went to the city to help others with their children. It is said that the employer's family is good, the salary given to the second aunt is high, and the food is good.
However, the time for employers to eat is very irregular. Sometimes they get up at 5 o'clock to have breakfast, or even have lunch at 1.
Although every time the employer respects her and lets her sit at the table to eat, she takes care of the children very hard. Every day after breakfast, she will croak with hunger! Until the evening 1, the whole person was about to collapse.
Every time my second aunt wants to eat her meal early, but she is afraid that her employer will have an opinion. After all, the job is hard-won and the salary is not bad, so my second aunt insists on having dinner with her employer every day in order to behave better. ...
After a few months, my second aunt looked yellow and tired. Moreover, the employer's two-year-old son is particularly naughty, and his second aunt is very busy every day.
Until one day, my second aunt inadvertently mentioned this to my mother and said, "If people don't eat, how can I eat first?" If my employer finds out, he will think that I am neither big nor small and don't know the rules. There's really no way. I will quit in two months, or I will be more free to go back to the countryside! "
Listening to my second aunt's grievances, my mother comforted her and said, "You can't stand it. You can buy some fruit yourself or eat snacks at home. You can eat snacks in advance! "
Unexpectedly, the second aunt said, "I don't eat other people's meals indiscriminately, and their children are not allowed to buy snacks, so there are almost no snacks at home."
I really can't listen to this anymore. Think that eating can also limit people's freedom? What is age and status?
So I said to my second aunt, "They don't eat regularly, so you tell your employer that it's hard for you to take care of your children. Can you eat in advance? " I believe people respect each other. It's impossible to say that you won't eat if they don't eat, right? If you can't understand this, Second Aunt, you'd better resign! "
My second aunt listened to me and felt reasonable. She said that she was ready to resign anyway, so she might as well speak out her grievances. ...
Unexpectedly, after the second aunt told the employer about it, the employer said in surprise, "why didn't you say so earlier?" We have no idea how you feel. You are really hungry. You can eat in advance. Don't you have to wait for us? "
Later, my second aunt didn't resign. She eats on time every day 10: 00, and then takes good care of the children. When the employer was having dinner at 12, she was coaxing the children, and everything seemed so natural. ...
The answer is: it depends!
If the employer asks you to eat first, congratulations, you have met a considerate employer and a person who knows how to respect others.
In fact, if the employer asks you to eat first, you must be too busy or unable to leave, but he can't let his nanny starve, so it is a respect for you to let you eat first.
As a nanny, it is also very hard to take care of children or do housework. If you are hungry, it will not only affect your work efficiency, but also complain.
Second, if you eat irregularly, or you are too busy to leave, you can also suggest eating first.
Because people respect each other, it is always impossible to make people hungry. After all, everyone is equal in the new society now, and I believe employers will not be angry because nannies eat first. Sometimes, we should understand each other.
Third, if it is a normal meal time, don't eat it yet.
After all, this is someone else's house. If you eat in advance, it seems disrespectful to each other. If someone invites you to eat, it may just be a kind word.
If you really eat it, you will feel disrespectful to your host's family. If you refuse, wait for the employer to have dinner with the whole family. People will think you are an educated person.
So the last thing I want to say is:
Being a nanny in someone else's house, would you eat if your employer invited you to dinner?
It depends on the situation, and everything should be acted according to circumstances, provided that people should respect each other and think more about others at all times.
I believe that as long as you are on the right path, you will not be gossiped, and employers and nannies can live in harmony. what do you think?
Our family invited northerners to eat noodles. As long as you eat noodles, you usually let the nanny fish the noodles first, because the old people have to cook noodles for a while, so if you eat rice, you can eat it at one table! Some nannies let her fish for noodles first, but she usually ignores the people behind her. There is such a nanny.