The man needs to make the following preparations:

1. Engagement fee:10,000,66,000,88,000,100,0001(meaning one in 100,000) and millions, depending on the regional differences.

(The labor cost of Tangshan Tang Haixian is generally 30,000-80,000)

2. Gold ornaments (rings, bracelets, necklaces, etc.). ), commonly known as "three gold"

3. Engagement ring (a diamond ring)

3. Gift cake

4, perfect, double. (washbasin, toothpaste, toothbrush, tooth cup, needle and thread, thimble, mirror, soap box, comb, handkerchief)

5. Sacrifice wine (one bottle of wine, one hand-washing chicken).

The woman needs to make the following preparations:

1. Gift: Give a red envelope gift to the person who helps the woman with the man's gift.

2. Sweet tea.

3. Tangyuan, snacks.

4. Banquet for male guests.

7. Return the man's gift.

Participation procedure:

Generally speaking, engagement focuses on the woman's customs and habits, and marriage focuses on the man's customs and habits, but in modern times, both men and women reach consensus. The following are general customs, which can be increased or decreased according to actual needs or local customs.

1. On the day of engagement, the man will put the "dowry" in two, six or twelve red boxes.

2. The man's relatives and friends will drink the sweet tea and put the red envelope in the cup.

3. The bride-to-be goes out to collect tea cups (the process is the same as tea worship).

4. After tea, put on an engagement ring (or finger); Tie the gold ring and the copper ring together with a red line, indicating that the husband and wife are the same body or change to a diamond ring.

The woman prepared a high chair and a low chair.

6. The bride-to-be sits with her face facing the living room door, sitting outward and her feet on the low chair.

7. The groom-to-be stands on the right of the bride-to-be and faces the bride-to-be.

8. The bride-to-be holds out her right hand, and the groom-to-be holds the ring in her right hand.

Matters needing attention in banquet:

After the above engagement process, the bride's family, in-laws and relatives of the bride will hold a banquet, and the groom-to-be will visit the bride's relatives one by one and accept the meeting gifts prepared by relatives for the groom-to-be.

The next day, the bride-to-be, accompanied by her aunt or aunt, will meet the relatives and friends of the man, hold a banquet and receive gifts. At this time, the man should pay attention to preparing a red envelope for each of the woman's companions. )

Pre-marriage preparation: Both men and women invite friends, relatives and neighbors to make wedding bedding and place "dates, peanuts, longan, lotus seeds, etc." The number of bedding in the corner of the quilt, which means "premature birth", used to be passable with double covers. By the 1990s, it had developed to "four covers and four covers" or even "eight covers and eight covers". Especially in rural areas, the woman's family is more particular. The night before the wedding, the man's family found several boys (friends, relatives, unmarried brothers) to "press the kang" for the groom, temporarily suppressing the monsters and ghosts, and the future was smooth sailing and settled down.