Why do Huainan people get married at noon?
At present, there are quite a few customs of getting married in various places, each place has its own customs, and it is nothing special to get married at noon in Huainan. Huainan belongs to Anhui, and most people get married at noon. Why? It is said that they got married at noon for the first time and at night for the second time. But now almost all weddings are held at noon, and there are few weddings at night. In ancient times, wedding banquets were actually held at night, so the bride was usually sent directly to the bridal chamber after three visits, so there was a saying that the wedding night was spent. It is said that it used to be popular to rob marriage, and it is definitely not good to rob marriage in broad daylight. If the wedding is held at night, the bride will be taken home and cooked with raw rice. This is also the saying of getting married at night. There is also a saying that many relatives and friends want to have a wedding, and it must be at night. There is no such thing as trouble in broad daylight. But now few people consider coming to the wedding banquet at night. It is more lively and the weather is better during the day. In many places, people choose their own dates and then send invitations. On the morning of the wedding, the man took people from the woman's home to his home, and then held the wedding at noon. People who come to the party send blessings, and then they go back to their own homes, so that close family members can get together for dinner in the evening. This is the situation that most people get married now. There are also some older people who are more conservative and follow the tradition. Some old people say that the first marriage is a girl who is not married, and she should be popular during the day, while the second marriage is a sense of inferiority, so she will choose a low-key marriage at night. Of course, this is the view of the older generation, and it is also a kind of differential treatment, which discriminates against people who have been married twice. But in today's society, second marriage is very common, and there is no distinction between first marriage and second marriage. Most people still choose to get married at noon. Although every place has its own customs, the most important thing in marriage is that two people are happy. If two married people are unhappy for some old ideas, I think it is not worth the loss, and there is no need to abide by some unreasonable customs.