Propose to the wedding flow chart
First, propose marriage.
What do you mean, propose? It is the man who goes to the woman's house with gifts and sincerity to explain that he wants to marry his daughter. This kind of occasion is usually for parents and newcomers.
1. The time to propose marriage is usually in the morning.
2. Newcomers don't interrupt: Let adults speak for themselves to show respect.
3. Before proposing marriage: The new couple should dress neatly and be polite, tell them that you are getting married, confirm the engagement date after obtaining the consent, and ask the date and time of the woman's parents to show respect.
4. Date of proposal: No need to look at the date. It is not appropriate to propose marriage in the first month and July of the lunar calendar. Even number marriage proposal in lunar calendar. Some elders like to have six days.
5. Number of proposed relatives: 6 people should be an even number (excluding children). Parents must attend (or representatives of elders or powerful people in the family)+the prospective groom. As long as the matchmaker is present, the older generation will propose marriage.
2. engagement
Engagement also means that the marriage is settled, which means that the woman agrees to the man's proposal, and the woman's parents also agree to the daughter's marriage. Then both parents arranged everything and prepared to tell all relatives and friends to announce the relationship between men and women. After the engagement, they were fiance and fiancee.
1. Good communication between the betrothal parties: the two sides exchange local customs, which is a respect for the woman's parents. Parents can discuss and finalize the process on the day of engagement.
Half a year in advance can give both parties enough time to prepare for the wedding. Before the date, the man will go to the woman's house to ask for the bride's eight characters. After that, the parents will look for the date with the horoscope of the bride and groom, as well as the taboo of the best man and bridesmaid.
3. The necessary items are ready, and the engagement gift money should also be ready.
Third, get married.
Marriage means that two families have officially become a family. Next, we will see what kind of wedding the couple will hold, whether it is a Chinese wedding or a Western wedding. China's wedding is according to everyone's local customs. Newcomers need to know the local customs and taboos. Because the customs of each place are different and many things are different, I won't list them for you one by one. There are not so many requirements for western-style weddings, and the basic wedding process is similar. Just entrust the wedding company. In addition, on the third day after marriage, you usually need to go back to your mother's house, which is also called returning home. When returning to the door, the newlyweds must go back. Remember not to go empty-handed, it will be said impolite. In addition, the clothes should be tidied up when you return home, because there will be a return banquet when you return home. The return banquet is mainly for the woman to invite relatives to attend.