Before every couple is formed, both men and women have friends of the opposite sex who play well. Their relationship may be pure or ambiguous. But I have no interest in each other at all, otherwise there would be no one else.
Among them, the existence of beautiful women or male girlfriends makes the other party unable to let go. From the emotional point of view, the partner's feelings at first are really not as good as these people. But everyone is a little selfish and doesn't want to have such a relationship.
Recently, a male reader wrote that his girlfriend had a good buddy, who grew up playing, but abruptly made himself jealous. It's not the first time that two people will spend the night outside. I don't know what to say after listening to his story. People on both sides seem very reasonable and can only be judged by everyone.
0 1, the boy met an eclectic woman.
Liu Fang, although it sounds like a girl's name, it is really a man's name. My parents said they wanted a daughter from the first birth, and they all had good names. It turned out to be a son, so they simply used that name.
Liu Fang is a little unhappy with this name. At school, his classmates called him "Xiao Fang" and sang "Xiao Fang". There is a girl named Xiao Fang in the village. This made him speechless and helpless, and he could only relax.
As the name implies, Liu Fang's character is really the weakness of the little girl, and she has been a good baby in the eyes of her parents since she was a child.
After graduation, Liu Fang successfully found a job, but fell in love with Jason, an ordinary girl in the company.
Liu Fang is rather old-fashioned and doesn't like to talk very much, so she will inevitably be rejected by people in the company. All this was seen by Jason, who always helped Liu Fang out when she saw the bumpy road, and let him quickly integrate into the group and become a member of the team.
And Liu Fang also slowly fell in love with this girl. Although she is three years older than him, she is still tempted.
02. Men love her, but they also have to endure the troubles from their girlfriends.
Liu Fang's thoughtfulness was soon discovered by Jason, but she didn't say anything. Now, at the age of 28, she has to step into the threshold of older women. The question of getting married has not been settled for various reasons, which makes my parents and I anxious. Now there is a man who likes himself, so what else can he choose?
Men and women are interested, and two people walk together by default, and no one has confessed. I just watched a movie and naturally took my hand. But the witness of their love is not Jason's girlfriend, but a man's girlfriend's boyfriend.
Jason's male girlfriends are all unusual. When they grow up, they are considered small. The key person is handsome, like a movie star. Liu Fang was relieved to see that their looks were quite different. If boyfriend and girlfriend wanted to pursue Jason, it was a shoo-in, and there was nothing wrong with Liu Fang.
But the problem is that this boyfriend and girlfriend seem to be very free. When two people go out on a date, Jason will take his best friend with him. The reason is that she is afraid of Liu Fang's hands and feet, so it is safer to bring her best friend.
Liu Fang can only smile bitterly and is very upset. She didn't have the courage to do so. This man seems as quiet as herself, and she just looks at them quietly, not to mention uncomfortable.
It's really no problem for couples to make an appointment to bring their girlfriends. But if you bring a man, it will be very strange. What two men and one woman think is misunderstanding. Liu Fang never imagined that when she was in love, she would have troubles from a man, not a rival in love but a girlfriend's boyfriend.
It was not until one time that Liu Fang discovered that his girlfriend's boyfriend didn't like to talk, but just didn't like to talk to himself.
03, three people lying together, without the hostility of male girlfriends.
On that occasion, for Jason's birthday, Liu Fang booked a box early, just waiting for her to celebrate. As expected, Jason not only brought girls, but also her male girlfriends. A few people drank too much, and the boyfriend and Jason talked and laughed, and even blew the cow. This makes Liu Mingbai, the other party is disdainful of his attitude, playing dumb.
Liu Fang was angry, but she had a drink with her boyfriend in Jason. It seems that the two men have been fighting from the beginning, and the more they drink, the worse they get. Finally, Liu Fang lay there asleep, and she could vaguely hear Jason and his boyfriend and girlfriend talking and laughing.
The next day, Liu Fang woke up to find him, his girlfriend and her best male friend lying together. This made him a little angry. This man is an invisible rival in love.
Later, Liu Fang learned that her boyfriend's name was Ho Lee, precisely because she didn't like Liu Fang's fragile appearance and was afraid that Jason would suffer a big loss. They also had a heart-to-heart talk. Liu Fang said, "If you are in love, how will you feel if a man follows you?"
Ho Lee didn't speak. Since that conversation, he has appeared less and less, even for a month or two. Liu Fang heard from Jason that Ho Lee seems to be in love and has no time to talk to her.
Without the existence of Ho Lee, their feelings quickly warmed up. A year later, it's time to talk about marriage.
04. The bride-to-be and her boyfriend spent the night together. The groom bluntly said: This is not the first time, and finally they broke up peacefully.
Therefore, both parents sat down to discuss the wedding ceremony, and the bride price was reasonable. Everyone is happy to set a date, and everything is going well. This ordinary couple doesn't have many twists and turns, and will soon become husband and wife. Otherwise, two people can really get married and have children.
What Liu Fang and Jason need to get married happily, though a little tired, is really worth it. Both of them didn't want to move in bed, so they naturally gave each other to themselves. After all, they are engaged now, they are formal lovers, and it is normal to have sex.
Afterwards, Liu Fang embraced Jason contentedly, and the zero-distance communication and contact further sublimated our feelings. Just when you were rude to me, Jason suddenly received a phone call from her boyfriend, whom she hadn't contacted for a long time, saying that she would celebrate their engagement.
The two couldn't refuse, so they gladly went to the appointment. That night, Liu Fang felt that Ho Lee seemed particularly unhappy. She kept drinking hard for herself and came back in a daze. Woke up the next day, Liu Fang was embarrassed to find that his fiancee didn't come back last night.
Liu Fang is very unhappy, and now they are husband and wife. Boyfriend and girlfriend, forget it if you can't interfere. Now I spent another night outside with my boyfriend. Who can guarantee that there will be no next time? So, nothing will happen after drinking?
Jason tired back, just to see her fiance unhappy, want to have sex, but was gently pushed away. Liu Fang spoke directly: "Where did you go last night?" Jason said directly without thinking: "I drank too much last night, so I slept in a box all night."
Liu Fang suddenly got angry: "With a male girlfriend?" Jason didn't speak, which is the default. Liu Fang said discontentedly, "This is not the first time. Now that you are my wife, can't you break up with him? "
Jason thinks her fiance is too stingy, deliberately trying to destroy her relationship with Xiaofa. Two people had a quarrel and broke up.
Liu Fang never thinks she is stingy, and men will mind. But Jason insists that her fiance is such a stingy person, and living together in the future will definitely be very tiring.
In the end, the more they quarreled, the more they felt that neither of them was the partner they wanted, and they chose to break up peacefully regardless of family persuasion.
Conclusion: Miyazaki Hayao's The Moving Castle of Hal;
"Love is not looking for a perfect person, but learning to appreciate that imperfect person with perfect eyes." Everyone is imperfect, and we have to tolerate each other's shortcomings in order to have happiness. Learning to appreciate imperfect people with perfect eyes is the best way.
There will always be people who get too close to the opposite sex, regardless of their partner's feelings. Maybe I don't feel anything, but my partner doesn't think so
If it is true love, I will definitely mind. After all, it is the opposite sex, and no one can guarantee that the opposite sex will not attract each other. This is human nature.
The so-called "beauty" and "male girlfriends" always have a trace of complexity and love, so they will accompany them silently and selflessly. In reality, it is not uncommon for this relationship to become husband and wife. How many people still believe in the saying "too familiar to start"?
In fact, the feelings between these heterosexual friends have surpassed the original lovers, and their existence is unreasonable. A bowl of water is hard to level, and if you want to go around between the two opposite sexes, you can only say that your heart is really big.
If you love, stay away from friends of the opposite sex. This is self-love and responsibility for each other, so as not to leave thoughts and eventually become the tipping point of the quarrel.
Today's topic: If you are in love, will you still be close to your boyfriend or girlfriend?