Send blessings to each other

-Basic etiquette for attending weddings and engagement ceremonies

* Respond to invitations and invitations as soon as they are received.

After receiving the invitation, you should call or reply to the other party immediately. Don't forget to say "congratulations" first, and then say whether you are present or not, so that the other party can grasp the correct attendance.

* Congratulations should be written on the gift package.

There are many kinds of red envelopes. Marriage is a great event in one's life. Be sure to be grand and luxurious, and don't forget to write a blessing.

* The amount of the gift money depends on the situation.

In Shanghai, the amount of gifts for office workers is between 500 ~ 1000 yuan, which should be even. Even numbers symbolize two pairs of blessings, and 4 (death) and 9 (suffering) are the most taboo. Gift money had better be new paper money.

* Dressed in luxury and brightness.

Red is the most pleasing color, and soft pink is also a good choice. Try to wear luxurious and bright clothes to attend, but you must not surpass the bride. Try to avoid wearing white clothes, because white represents the bride of the day; If you wear dark colors, you'd better wear small ornaments to embellish it, not too heavy.

When wearing ordinary clothes:

Try to wear a suit or dress, not too casual.

Short skirts, knee-length skirts or long skirts have different styles and are the best clothes for weddings.

Shoes and purses should match the style of clothes, preferably in the same color.

When wearing a little dress:

Pearl ornaments are elegant and noble, which is very suitable for weddings. Off-the-shoulder dress with scarf or accessories is a wise choice.

(2) Portable small leather bag, which can be placed on the seat, which is very convenient.

3 shoes should match clothes.

* Common greetings

be newly married

The sum of heaven and earth is mutual affinity, lasting forever.

Loving love forever is like a hundred years of oxygen.

Lucky chance is a perfect match. What a coincidence, perfect match, perfect match.

Unite as one, unite as one, unite as one.

be engaged in

A good marriage is the beginning of a family.

Wen Ding's auspicious marriage matches Bai Shou's promise to order mandarin ducks.

Make a lifelong alliance, a good marriage, and make a lifelong commitment.

The key points to pay attention to on the wedding day will make you look decent.

* Arrive half an hour early

Arrive half an hour early for the wedding banquet, and tidy up your appearance. Don't go there in a hurry, or it will be impolite. Give the gift bag to the receptionist in front of the reception desk and sign it to congratulate you.

* If you are late or leave early, you should inform the other party in advance.

If you are going to be late or leave early, you should inform the other party in advance. When you are late, don't enter the meeting alone. You'd better ask the receptionist to take you in. If you want to leave early, you'd better wait until all the guests have finished speaking. You don't need to say hello to the bride and groom when you leave, but you should say hello to the people on both sides of the table.

* Before the reception desk, say some congratulations first.

First of all, congratulate the relatives of the couple, say their names and thank them for their hospitality.

(2) Pass the gift bag and look the other person in the eye. At this time, by the way, say some words of blessing.

Sign the autograph book. If both husband and wife are present, write the husband's name first and then the wife's name.

* Listen carefully to the speech.

From the wedding reception to the toast, both the matchmaker and the guests made speeches. Listen to the speech quietly and don't make any noise.

When you sit down, you should say hello to the person next to you first.

If the person at your desk is a stranger, you should also show a happy mood. Before taking a seat, introduce yourself to the people at the same table, so as not to be embarrassed, but don't make yourself too conspicuous.

* Remember to applaud at the end of the speech.

Eat while listening to the speech, but remember to put down the tableware and applaud from beginning to end. If someone at the same table gives a speech on stage, try not to eat and concentrate on the lecture.

Emergency countermeasures

Q: What if I can't attend suddenly?

I should have attended, but I can't because of something temporary. Please inform the other party immediately and let them know that you can't attend. You can also find an agent to participate. It is best for the agent to be a friend that both parties know. Please ask the agent to send the gift money.

Q: If I don't attend, do I need to give a gift?

A: Even if you don't attend the wedding reception, you should give gifts. It is impolite to send it directly to each other or before the ceremony. Remember to write some congratulations on it

Q: What should I do if I am suddenly invited to speak on stage?

This is a wedding, so we can't refuse. First, congratulate the couple and their families, say "Congratulations", and then introduce yourself and say something nice to bless the couple, which takes 2 ~ 3 minutes.

Q: What should I do if I know that the other person is married after the wedding?

A: Although I was not invited, I know the fact that my friend got married. I should call him first to congratulate him. You can give gifts or cash, but you may be busy just after the wedding, and you can wait until 1 ~ 2 weeks later.

Also attached is a wedding guide: