You are a person who will never see or cherish the people around you, and you are a typical "watching from a bowl", so I advise you to take a good look at your way and sincerity in treating your feelings and your girlfriend (wife) and think about what kind of woman your wife is. Now that you are married, you should bear some responsibilities. Don't put all the responsibilities on her changed excuses.

You'd better have a deep communication with your ex-girlfriend, such as your future life and work. If we really want to be together, this is an unavoidable problem. If there is a problem that can't be solved, you'd better disconnect, but you can try to hide it from your wife, and then live a good life with her sincerely and keep the pain in your heart forever. If you have the same pursuit in your future career and life, and have the confidence to make any sacrifice without fear of any obstacles, then I wish you all the best. After all, "All's well that ends well" is what everyone wants to see, just to remind you that whether you can be happy in the future depends on your own business.