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When you are single, you can eat and drink alone and be free. If you are in love, there is another dating fee; After marriage, car, house, children, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea ...
The more economically developed areas, the more obvious this pressure is.
It's all money
Just one item is enough to crush you.
Do not believe, to calculate an account.
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A netizen in Shenzhen calculated this way:
Wedding: A wedding averages nearly 250,000. Among them, the wedding banquet cost 654.38 million yuan, the wedding ceremony cost 50,000 yuan, the honeymoon tour cost 25,000 yuan, the jewelry cost 25,000 yuan, the wedding dress cost 20,000 yuan, the wedding supplies cost 20,000 yuan and the wedding photography cost 8,000 yuan.
Buying a house: buy a 5 million wedding room (enough to live), only need a down payment of 6.5438+0.5 million;
Decoration: the renovation of the new house is 6.5438+0.5 million yuan; Add home appliances and furniture, 50,000 yuan;
Car, according to the standard of scooter, 65438+ ten thousand yuan.
So, at least 2 million.
In other words, if you don't bite the old, even if the annual income is 1.5 million, you will have to struggle for more than ten or twenty years.
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You may think that this is just an algorithm in first-tier cities, and other places will be better? Not necessarily!
For the man, the bride price is also a big expense for marriage. A few years ago, a "national bride price map" was circulated on the Internet. For example, in Xinjiang, Inner Mongolia and other regions, the highest bride price can reach 200,000, and there are not a few people who exceed 65,438+10,000.
Du Nan Weekly also conducted a questionnaire survey. According to the survey, about half of the male respondents spent more than 60,000 yuan on bride price.
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There are also more than 40% female respondents whose dowry exceeds 60,000 yuan.
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Barely here, finally stepping into the marriage hall, you think it is the end, in fact, this is the beginning of spending money.
Prenatal education, early education, interest classes ... as soon as they landed, they started the mode of upgrading and fighting monsters.
In Hong Kong, a primary school student has to attend six cram schools on average, and the average cost per person from primary school to university is close to $654.38 +0.3 million.
Is it expensive? That's not much!
On 20 18, Sina Finance released a "ranking of birth costs in first-tier cities", showing that it costs 2.76 million yuan to raise a child to go to college in Beijing.
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From pregnancy, breastfeeding, eating, education, playing ... every step of a child's growth costs a sum of money.
No money, no good educational resources, watching children lose at the starting line. ......
Cruel?
It is reality!
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There is an old multiple-choice question: which do you choose, bread or love?
When we are young and naive, most of us will choose love.
When I grow up, I find that love without bread is simply vulnerable.
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Maybe you are a potential stock, but who believes in the future! Even Ma Yun, the founder of Alibaba, and Ma, the founder of Tencent, who will believe that you expect an enlightened parent today? ! Then I can only say blessing!
Marriage in reality is a matter of money from beginning to end.
If you think clearly, you can have your own and each other's future, otherwise it will be a burden for everyone!
Still here, I wish everyone who has the right object and is sure to enter the marriage hall happiness ~