1, standing in front of the boys.

Even if your parents are against you being together, they still love you at heart. As long as they make her happy, they will think of you from your point of view. If you can stand in front of the boy at this time and let your parents see that you really love her, you will feel happy, and you will never regret it no matter how poor or rich you are in the future. In this way, you can save your parents' hearts and let them know that you want to live with him wholeheartedly. You think this is your happiest choice after marriage. And you should firmly tell them that your choice is not wrong and you hope to get their support.

2. Encourage boys to be self-motivated and work hard.

Your parents will definitely like boys who are particularly self-motivated, because their ultimate goal is to hope that boys can give you better material conditions so that you don't have to rush about for economic problems in the future, so you must encourage boys to be self-motivated and work hard at this time to win the approval of your parents. After all, even if your parents love you again, they won't teach you to push into the fire pit, so it's also an important way for you to let them recognize your boyfriend. When your parents see that your life is developing in a good direction, they will naturally agree to your relationship.

3. Tell your parents your determination.

You know, parents always love their children the most, so if you really love this boy in both roles, you can definitely touch your parents. So, you should tell your parents your determination to be with him. At the same time, you should also look at this matter from the perspective of your parents and discuss it with them from their perspective. I believe that as long as you work hard, you will definitely let your parents know the love between you.

Second, parents do not agree with the countermeasures

1. Seriously show your sincerity to your parents. In the eyes of parents, young love can't stand the test, and if you really love each other, you must first tell your parents your determination and good wishes to live together. I believe that if you decide to tell your parents, you must want to spend your life with this person and have a good life.

2. Listen to your parents. If there is anyone in the world who wants to say that they love us the most, it must be our parents, and the person we want to love is opposed by our parents, then their reason must be that they think it is good for us. Their starting point must be that we can be better. Therefore, it is necessary to listen to the reasons for parents' opposition to judge whether it is desirable.

3. Overcomable and insurmountable. Sometimes when we have to make a decision between our lover and our parents, no matter which side we choose, it will hurt us and the people we love. Therefore, when parents give reasons for opposition, analyze the reasons that you two can overcome together and the reasons that you can't overcome. If you can overcome it, try to be together.

4. Don't be impulsive and irrational. The first thing to do must be to calmly analyze, find ways to solve the problems of both sides, and strive to meet the conditions and requirements of parents. At the same time, we must communicate with our parents, strive for their compromise, and sincerely show their determination to be together. Never choose excessive and immature behavior to hurt our family.

Sometimes parents' conditions are a test. Sometimes parents really want us to live a better life, and sometimes some so-called difficult tests by parents are also challenges to our marriage and feelings. When we think that these are not problems and two people can work together to overcome them, either the other party does not get married or the other party does not get married, parents will eventually compromise.

6. Be a double agent when appropriate. This spy is not a derogatory term, but means that when necessary, he can get along well with his parents, help them build a good impression and take whatever he likes. This can ease the parents' strong opposition to this person, and also ease the atmosphere and pave the way for the future.

3. What if parents don't agree to get married?

1. Marriage is not a matter for two people.

Marriage is not about two people, but about two families. Then it was a matter of three families. When you are in love, you always pursue happiness, romance, excitement and all kinds of unrealistic love. When you get married, your parents will definitely write you a check. If your parents don't agree, it means that they are giving you an analysis from the perspective of people. So at this time, you can't treat love as a simple thing for two people.

2. Marriage is not that simple.

Marriage is really not as simple as you think when you are in love. Two people simply make a plan and then work towards this goal, but you know that love can't be that simple. Before you get married, you only consider yourself and your parents to help you. After you get married, you have to form your own family, and you have to face three families, and these three families will always have such problems, so it is definitely unrealistic for you to get married with a loving attitude.

Both parents are experienced people and always have their own ideas.

Sometimes parents don't want you to marry him or her. Maybe it's because if you two get married, you may not have enough economic foundation, enough living ability and all the skills to face the society alone. So if your parents don't agree, they always have their own opinions. Sometimes you want to marry a rich boy, but do you know how big the gap will be between you? What you may see together is your beauty. After a long time, your beauty and youth no longer exist. Will you still have love?

If the parents' analysis is reasonable, they must obey their parents' arrangement.

No matter how ugly your parents say, no matter how your parents threaten you, no matter what your parents do to embarrass you, it can only prove that they really see each other's shortcomings and see the shortcomings you didn't find, because at this time, when you are hot-headed, you will only find each other's good, but not the shortcomings. Perhaps this shortcoming can only be discovered after marriage, so if your parents' analysis makes sense, you must listen to them.

If the person you like has an upward spirit, you can impress your parents with actions.

If the person you like is enterprising, has his own plans and arrangements for his work, is full of hope for the future and has his own plans, it is also good for you. Whether he has money or not, you should let your parents see his ability. Only in this way can your parents promise to marry him. In short, no matter how difficult it is now, as long as he is energetic and positive, it is the only magic weapon to conquer your parents.

6. A marriage that parents disapprove of will not be happy.

If you hurt your parents because of marriage, then no matter how good your future is, your parents will be very sad. At this time, it is not just tears, but the greatest harm to your heart. If you want your parents to spend the rest of their lives and enjoy their happiness, then I don't think you should get married like this regardless of your parents' ideas, because you really hurt them, and you will regret your behavior sooner or later.

The above is Bian Xiao's list of countermeasures for parents' discord. You can refer to it However, you can add your own ideas to different parents. After all, they are your biological parents, so you know their personalities better and dispel their worries. Then parents will naturally agree to be together. In any case, parents are good for us, and we should also refer to their opinions.